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writes: ive been seeing this boy, Sean for about two months. at first we were just really good friends, but everyone always told me that he really liked me. however, i ignored it and we continued to be close friends. about two months ago when we started seeing each other, i really started to fall for him. i mean REALLY started to fall for him. and now, he's all i think about day and night. i havent saw him in ages and its really hurting me. he asked me to go to his house the other day, but then changed his mind because his friends asked him to go out for a drink. fair enough, friends come first, but shouldn't he have told them he already had plans? it really hurt me, and since then he's been so dry with me its unreal. although sometimes i feel as if he uses me and only calls me or texts me when he can be bothered or when he wants something. what can i do to make things go back to the way they were? x
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reader, DV1  +, writes (1 June 2007):
 He probably felt like he gave you all kinds of signs, and you ignored him. He's not a mindreader, and won't know how you feel unless you tell him. You're torturing yourself, and blaming both yourself and him for nothing. He can't call and text you unless he really knows that you're interested. Otherwise, he's just going to continue his life, not trying to offend you, but completely oblivious to how you feel. If you love him tell him. He'll listen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2007): I'm not really sure, but maybe all he was really intrested in was the chase?you should talk to him, and tell him how you feel. Just don't come on too clingy, just let him know that you feel distant from him. If you guys are really close friends, he should be understanding, and try to fix it, or explain why.hope this helps!3kelski
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