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36-40,
*k06
writes:Here's the story.I got an email from someone saying that my girlfriend of a year cheated on me. They told me to look at her myspace inbox in september and it would be there. This is what it said:Guy: I hope that we can still be friends after last night. You said that you would be ok in the morning. I tried to call you but you didnt answer. I guess ill just hear from you on here.Right below this message, which means his message was a reply, was a message from her.My girlfriend: Ya, what are you doin tonight?This is a guy she dated when she was younger.Two hours later... after she got off the phone while outside so i couldnt hear... the profile was deleted, therefore no proof.So here's the scoop: Now she's mad that I got onto her myspace. She ran off to stay with family 2 hours away. She went to a cabin party, although she said she didnt drink or cheat. I have only received a few text messages. Every time i try to call she ignores me. I even apologized for looking on her myspace... even though I think anyone would have to protect themselves. But anyway, now she is ignoring me. I even left flowers at her home. What do i do?
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reader, DV1 +, writes (31 May 2007):
 You both betrayed each others' trust. She's done it on a greater level. She might be playing a game with you to see how angry she could get you. You've tried apologizing, and that obviously didn't work. The only thing that you can do at this point, is move on with your life and forget about her. If she tries to find you, don't answer her calls or text messages.
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reader, agony_uncle_r  +, writes (31 May 2007):
hmmm tricky.. this guy emailing you could of just been a wind up merchant and trying to make trouble.yet the way shes reacted does seem a tad odd to me, yes you invaded her privacy so i can see that upsetting her but you were in a tricky situation and by the way shes acted id say with due reason. dont apologise to her, she should do that to you. i say kool things down a bit, make no contact.
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reader, rambini +, writes (31 May 2007):
 this is difficult bcoz on one hand this girl cud b takin u for one immensely spectacular ride. u c if she has cheated, not only has she dun that, but she has also managed to turn the situation round to make u feel like the guilty one! so she cheats, then gets apologies and flowers n beggin, genius...not. i hate to say it but this is my gut feeling, as personally i wud have no problem with my bf goin on my myspace or facebook as i no i have nothin to hide. however on the other hand, if she hasn't cheated then it is different but she duz seem to be over reactin on a major scale. i hope u get it sorted good luck
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