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writes: Why is my girlfriend so open? She told me once that her auntie had a vaginal problem and went into detail about it. She knows all about her brothers private lifes and is so open about sex and pregnancy that it really really irritates me. I think it does because one minute she acts mature and the next she is acting like a little baby and I don't think it fits her maturity. The thing is when I say 'I don't want too know about this' she just starts saying child-like things such as 'Why? I bet your mums has had problems' and 'I bet your mum has done things like this before...' etc. Its quite annoying and offputting...
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (9 February 2007):
 i think this woman has no respect for you because you have voiced how you feel and yet she continues to annoy you with unwelcome habit. you need to lay boundries in this relationship, her mother might have taught her to be open but she forgot to teach her what is appreciated and what is not, so this is upto you to decide if you want to stay with a blabber mouth gf and unwilling to change or you will want someone with dignity and respect for other people's feelings.
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (8 February 2007):
 What you described is a lack of manners. It is not proper for a family member to air the dirty laundry of others.
Many find this irratating, and your only recourse with this kind of slandering gossip is to refuse to listen. If she keeps it up the best thing you can do is break-up and explain the lack of manners. This will give her a chance to change.
You might look for a woman that has better manners.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have told her on several occasions and she doesn't listen. her family are jokers and just laugh at things and think its ok too tell other people like me. What I think the biggest thing is that she doesn't respect my decision not too want too know about things and think that its wrong too be that open. She won't stop for anyone because thats what her mother has taught her and she wont change herself because thats 'the way she is'.
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reader, Jovial +, writes (8 February 2007):
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i think this is one type of openness we all love to hate. your gf need to learn when to say things and not to say anything, i understand where you are coming from i also get annoyed when a person tell me things i dont want to know about especially about other people. also learn to tell her to stop and tell her to think before she say things because some of this things might make u uncomfortable around this people and probably all these things she was told in confidence. if you can tell her you might be afraid to open-up to her because you dont know how many people will get to know your business it will teach her to keep quite so that she can earn your trust. your mother might have had the same problem but its not her business as much as it is not your business to know her aunt vaginal problems. tell her to respect other people's personal issues.
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