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writes:I have been going out with my girlfriend for a little over 2 months, and she is the best by the way. The problem is i have a hard time opening up to her. I used to not be able to even hug her but i got over that. Now im taking the next step. I really want to kiss her but everytime i want to im afraid i'll sneak it up on her and i'll like end up head butting her or something. I also have a hard time talking to her like a normal boyfriend should. We were friends for like 2 years before i asked her out so it feels like im treating her more like a friend than a girlfriend. All i want is some advice on how to open up to her and talk like a normal couple, and finally gather up the guts to kiss her. can you help? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2007): well i think you sould totally go for the first kiss take her to her favorite quiet place. Get to talking like you used to when your where friends bring back and old memorie then when you get quiet bring her closer to you in your arms and hold her tight (any girl loves to be held close) then pull back a littel but dont let go, smile and look deep in to her eyes leen in a little and she will react and leen in to if not go for it slowly if she pulls back then dont worry apologize for moving to fast.
If you dont kiss then you might get an awkward vibe but thats the best time to pour your heart out tell her how you feel about her. But be careful of what you say to her think of what you want say. and word it in a wy that makes you comfortable saying it and comfotable for her too!
Good luck
Dev
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2007): It probably will be a bit strange at first going from mates to a couple - My now husband was my next door neighbour so i'd known him since i was 10 years old. The first few months we just giggling whenever we tried to be romantic but you get over it. My bloke just came out with "do you think it'd be ok if i kissed you now?" It was a bit weird and awkward the first time we kissed but then first kisses usually are. You could start slowly - holding her hand, giving her a peck on the cheek and take it from there or you could just take the plunge and kiss her she's probably waiting for you to make your move like jessie said and the more kisses you have the better they'll get!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2007): Have you told her that you want to kiss her? It might be better to rather than just suddenly kissing her. That way you'll know whether she wants to kiss you back and maybe she'll help make the first move.
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reader, ask jessie  +, writes (8 February 2007):
well i think se feels exactly the same way about you. shes watingfor you to make the first move. now i may be only 11 but ive dealt wth many of these situations. all you haveto dois tell her how you feel and she may make the first move!
hope it works out
jessie
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