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*xyclaire
writes: I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, in our second year I went on holiday with my friends but before i left me and my boyfriend split up. This meant I could have some fun, which I did, meaning I got with another guy.Now he has planned a holiday with the lads this summer and I just know the opportunities he will get, especially if he is drunk.I really don't want any lies in our relationship...what should i say or do?
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reader, Dawnie +, writes (8 February 2007):
I can understand your anxieties but i think you should trust your partner, let him have his holiday and see how things go when he comes back. Then perphaps you two can get away together and spend some quality time alone. Good luck.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (8 February 2007):
You can't stop him going on holiday with his friends, especially after he didn't stop you. Also, if we're being fair I guess you should give him the opportunity to have a holiday romance too.... but it sounds like you're in too deep with this relationship now. Do you trust him? If you do then you have nothing to worry about and if you don't then are you sure you want to continue the relationship? The only way to resolve this is by talking to him honestly.
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