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anonymous
writes:hi well im in a long distance relationship...and its goin great just over the 5 month mark. We are going to see each other this week...we have both talked about sex, we are both 18 and feel very ready...we talk and are very open with each other, but he cant answer the question i have... as i have done other sexual foreplay...with fingers will i still bleed and hurt as much? plz help :) x
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reader, hails +, writes (21 February 2007):
 it sounds just like my experience even with thelong distance lol. it sounds like hes broke your hymen already. you may still bleed when you have sex as iv had the same experiences as you, but then you may not but dont worry about it. just remember to be safe as im sure you will
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reader, hails +, writes (21 February 2007):
well im in a long distance relationship to and by the sounds of it uv lost ur virginity just by his fingers as i did too, an yes u may still bleed but after a couple of times of sex it will stop
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reader, baby_gal +, writes (9 February 2007):
nerrr i dont bleed when he uses his fingers...im just wondering will i even tho my hymen has already been stretched?
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reader, cd206 +, writes (8 February 2007):
 It will probably hurt more than with just fingers because it's going to stretch you more but it'll only hurt for a few minutes and the more you worry about the pain the more it will work.
I'm slightly baffled by what you're saying about still bleeding. If you're saying you bleed every time he fingers you I think it must be one of two things.... either he has long fingernails that are scratching you internally or that your hymen is not entirely broken and it's aggravated by his fingers. If it's the latter you probably will bleed when you lose your virginity but not afterwards since sex should properly break your hymen in.
Don't forget to make your first time a safe time!
CD
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