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writes: i confronted my bf of not calling me honey again, he told me that he chooses not to coz of what he had saw at the past when he snooped my cellphone and found out the text of my ex in another languange he thought that one of the words in theyre says 'hon' so i did told him that it isnt and he smiled, will he will call me honey again or which is best to ask him what he prefer of what? in what way? and he confronted me also of not saying i love you to him in return during one of our phone conversation, is saying back those words really important to guys?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2007): Do you mean he stopped calling you honey because he thought your ex-boyfriend used to call you it?
He probably saw "honey" as being a special word he and only he called you, and knowing someone else called you it upset him because it no longer felt as special.
That with him saying that you don't say "I love you" enough - well, perhaps your boyfriend is just quite sensitive. Not a bad thing, nor just a guy thing - it's just a "your boyfriend" thing.
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reader, jabey  +, writes (8 February 2007):
I think yes to some men they do like to hear terms of endearment. And often us as women expect things to be said to us all the time, but forget men want to be loved and nutured and told to, its an equal world.
So carry on telling him you love him and calling him affectionate names. Dont make an issue out of it, just do it. And perhaps for now dont use the term hon, or honey. Stick to gorgeous, sexy, baby, babe or any others you can think of.
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reader, depaiva  +, writes (8 February 2007):
 Yeah I'd think so. They are human just like us, they feel just like as-even though at times they don't show it. They want affection just like us.....
Give and show him all the feelings you have for him, you'll see a difference straight away-you will be enriching your relationship and you'll feel more complete with him.
Call him honey, baby or if you guys have a pet name, that's even better. Tell him he smells good, or that his backside looks hot in those jeans... Just spoil him as much as you'd like to be spoiled...
He needs to feel that you love him. Guys are just like us when it comes to love and for a relationship to work feelings need to be reciprocated.
You probably got a good thing here so do all you can to keep it.
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