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writes:hey, im 16, ive just broken up with my bf who i was crazy in love with. im rli rli hurting, and confused what to do. he told me he wanted to end it because it wasnt the same anymore, bt he told other people it was because he had problems and he didnt want me to get involved. the day after we broke up we went to school. everything was normal, we were just friends, except from a little bit of tention, but thats expected. that day i met up with a male friend and he saw, he accused me of getting over him quickly and flirting with other lads. after that, there was more attention, and he started to act like he didnt care, and that he had moved on. i also found out from one of his friends that he was thinking about dumping me before he did anyway. i still love him, is there a chance he could still love me, or should i just give up and move on and if so, how do i get over a broken heart? thank you
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 September 2006):
 Give up and move on, even if he still did have feelings for you the way he has and is treating you is wrong and if you got back together you will probably be back in this same situation in a few months time if that.
I agree with Dazzerg keep yourself busy and concentrate on your friends and yourself.
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (22 September 2006):
 In general I would say keep yourself busy, try and go out with friends and confide in them if necessary and try and carry on as much as possible but dont be scared to lean on people when you feel the need.
Specifically it sounds to me like your ex is probably very confised and has alot going on in his life. I would be open to the experience of meeting new people. Its impossible to tell if he still feels the same because he probably doesnt know himself. Hope that helps. Take care.
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