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writes: I recently read a a few comments on my girlfriends myspace toward her best mate, who is a girl...Im not sure if its the way they act together as whenever i've seen them together they're not as hyper, but they message each other random things like 'I love you loadza' and 'i love you foreverness' and 'i love you sexy' and 'Imiss you sooo much' and things like that. And ok, if it is just the way they act i respect that, but am i alone in thinking thats a bit over the top??
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 September 2006):
 Most girls show their feelings openly towards their female friends as we can, where as boys don't.
I don't feel this is over the top I tell my best friend I love her loads and things like that because I do, she's my best friend and been there when I've needed her the most.
I really think you are worrying over nothing but if it does bother you talk to your girlfriend about it although you may come across a little daft.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (22 September 2006):
 Best friends for girls are the best thing on earth lol... We tend to tell them everything, confide in them, cry with them,laugh with them, share with them and generally have fun. There is a big bond with us girls you know!
The expression love you loads and love you forever is all about the feel good factor and the fact that that person really knows you and you never want to break that bond, you just want them to know that you care and that you always will.. yeah girls can go over the top but at a young age is all part of the fun and it does calm down a bit... in times of crisis even now or sometimes if i havent spoken to my best mate for a while, we will sign off emails with love you loads or miss ya! and stuff like that just so we know they care and are thinking of us. Just a women thing I think and men would never understand! tee hee
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOhh ritte i understand lol i was just curious thats all...I knew girls put 'I love you' but not 'I love you forever and muchly always rawr' i found it a bit cringe worthy and fake...And very OTT...Thanks tho...
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2006): Well some girls, especially best friends, have really close and funny relationships like that. I know my best friend and I always leave comments on eachother's pages that say "i love you," "i miss you," and she even asked me to marry her one day but it was all in good fun. We are both very much inlove with 2 wonderful guys. I don't think you should be worried unless you see some physical evidence or if they are constantly saying "i miss you" then that might be a little too much, especially if they are not apart and see eachother often. I mean once in a while it's okay, but not everyday. A lot of girls tend to have inside jokes with girlfriends so don't be too worried. =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2006): yes.
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