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writes: right this is my problem,basically i got with this guy last year in jan and we got on so well i was really startin to like him,i hadnt been with anyone sexually before him,he was my first for everything n i love him so much, but this year has just been so messed up,like for expample i met him last week and we had a really good time but hes just ignorin me now and its like he dosnt wana no me.we split a couple of months ago but its like we never split at all cos we always still saw eachother.and as well this year he went with another girl i work in a hotel and him n his mate came to my hotel with two girls!i dont no what to do,i no hes hurt me and maybe i should forget about him but i truly love him and i dont get whats going on with him!HELP!!!!
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reader, Toria +, writes (23 September 2006):
 I think you need to talk to him and find out where he sees this relationship going because from here he doesn't seem to have any maturity towards you or this relationship and no point in you taking this seriously if he is just seeing it all as abit of fun and something to do.
I cna understand you love him but if all he is going to do is play with your emotions and hurt you is it really worth it?
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (21 September 2006):
 This boy sounds very childish and you need to get rid of him He's only causing you pain and trauma and nobody needs people like this is their lives. Tell him you don't want to see him anymore, let him be the one confused and upset for once.
He just wants the best of both worlds. He want to have you to come to when it suits him but he also wants to act like he's single too, as you saw when he was with the other girls. Don't play these games with him anymore, let him find someone else to use and abuse when he's bored.
We've all been there, honey. The person we care about, and think we love, is treated us badly and we so badly want them to change but the fact remains, that they don't change while they have all their comforts. Don't be that girl anymore, move on and find someone who loves you for who you are.
Good luck
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