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writes: Can you fancy someone too much?I fancy this guy so much I can't relax when he is around and he feels the same way. How can we get over these overwhelming feelings for each other. This has been going on for months now. We seem to be scared of each other. We talk about all sorts and hug but just can't seem to get it on. It is so frustrating. It's like we are kids... we're in our late 30's. He's attached but not in love and i'm single available and waiting. Can you be afraid of love? Reply to this Question
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 September 2006):
 Most are afraid of love for different reasons..
Some because of past situations that have left them hurt and scared, some because of fear of the unknown.
Yes I do believe you can love/like/fancy/want someone too much but you can only try and go with what is thrown at you although all the time he is in a relationship you can't get involved as this will only cause problems for all involved and if he wants you and not his current girlfriend then he shouldn't be in his relationship anyway.
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reader, lostgirl04  +, writes (22 September 2006):
 I think everyone has been afraid of love atleast once in their life. Maybe because they were afraid of getting hurt or of the love ending someday. But I think that when there is passion and chemistry like it seems you two have, then you should not waste it. If you both feel the same, why hasn't something started? I think you should stop being afraid. You only live once. Just think of all the good times you could have if you both pursued this. Don't be afraid to open your heart to someone. Ask him how he feels about this and if he seems to agree, go and be happy together. Good luck!
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