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writes: Hi, my boyfriend and I have split up and gone on a break for a week because i have emotionally drained him with paranoia.He says we can get through this and we will meet up again after our break but how can I give him back his strength and get him back as my boyfriend? I've come to realise on this break i've been an idiot with my paranoia and want to make it right but is it too late?
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reader, Toria +, writes (21 September 2006):
 If your boyfriend hasn't done anything to cause you to be paranoid then something else has therefore you need to get to the bottom of this issue, try seeing your doctor and he maybe able to refer you to see someone to talk through your issues and concerns, once you are your boyfriend meet after this break you need to talk to him and explain how you was feeling and you say on this break you've come to realise you've been an idiot with your paranoia if you really believe this then you need to tell him that you've realised its silly and its not him or anything he has done, I would leave it til the break is up as try to push him while your on this break may push him away.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (21 September 2006):
 When you say paranoia, do you mean about him cheating on you? I think you need to get some help. Problems like this stem deep in our minds and we cannot sort them out on our own. You need to talk to a professional and find out why you're acting this way and how you can get over it.
This problem is obviously very serious, as it's already causing problems to your relationships. Get some help as soon as possible, and stay away from your boyfriend.You need 'me time' and having him around will only slow the process of sorting out yourself.
When you're feeling better about things, maybe you and your boyfriend can work things out. But things like this don't go away on their own, they need work. Get some help, honey, and your relationships will greatly improve.
Good luck.
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