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writes: My new BF does not get turned on by me:I met my current BF online and after a year of constant communication and online video conversation, I went overseas to visit him. We spent a few days getting comfortable with each other but when it was time to make love - he could not get an erection (also, he's a virgin). He has had some self-esteem issues and occassionally has trouble getting an erection.My question is: He may love me, but maybe it's in terms of a Best Friend as he can't get an erection. While he likes being touched by me and that I am attractive enough, he does not get excited by being intimate with me. What is the problem: he is not attracted to me or he is having some erectile dyfsunction issue (psychological or psychological)?
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reader, claire_x100 +, writes (18 September 2006):
 It probably mostly is because hes a virgin, and is scared of what you may think. Send cheeky messages or say cheeky things to him to boost his confidence. Maybe spend a bit more time kissing an touchin it might jus fall into place, if not try something kinky nothin can hurt. Im sure he does love you but if you are unsure talk to him make it clear to him how u feel and ask him how he feels about the whole situation. Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2006): Because he's a virgin and you say he has trouble getting an erection, that's probably all that is wrong with him. He might also be nervous as to how you will rate his performance in bed. You could talk to him about it and see exactly how he feels and get to the bottom of it.
Good luck x
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