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writes: Hello i need help, my bf and i have been goin out for a while and he just doesnt seem bothered about me. But when i think about us braking up i get really upset and heartbroken. He just neva sees me anymore, theres no way of getting in contact with him because he never has a mobile on him, goes on the comupter or is eva in and i dont know his mates number that hes always with. I dont want to be takin for a ride but, the last time we broken up he was like saying he was gona change and he did, but now its gone back and it makes me feel that im not worth it. But i just cant seem to let him go. I want to talk to him but when i try i cant, please give me some advice on what to. HeartBroken.
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reader, galymyde +, writes (17 September 2006):
It sounds like he has already gone, so go out, have a bit of retail therapy, call your friends and have a night on the town. Sitting at home wondering what he's doing, if he's going to call isn't doing you any good, and i'm pretty sure from the sound of it he hasn't given you a second thought recently.
You never know a decent night out and you may meet someone who isnt going to treat you badly, get a bit selfish and think of yourself, rather than dwelling on something thats already gone.
Good luck and have fun....
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2006): Sorry to say it, but you really have no choice in this.
He has already let YOU go, by the sound of it, and you no longer have a boyfriend - what would you call someone who never sees you any more; is never home, and who you cannot get in touch with?
Much as it hurts, the best thing you can do is to put him out of your mind and go about enjoying your friends and activities that are fun and interesting.
If he DOES call you at some point, you can certainly let him know then how much his behavior upset you - BUT on second thought, you say he broke up with you before, and promised to change when you told him how you felt, only the change didn't last. Based on this, I'd say its really not worth wasting any more of your time and energy on someone who doesn't appreciate you.
By refusing to put up with him, and his behavior, you can show your own self-worth; you show the world you respect yourself, and hopefully you will meet a man who will value you for who you are!
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reader, clairedevlin47 +, writes (17 September 2006):
get rid of him
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2006): I think that you and your boyfreind need to sit down and talk about why he wont pay any attention to you and if he wont listen to that then tell him that you are thinking about ending the relationship and that if he doesnt make you feel worth something then the relationship is ending or just leave him to sweat and realise that he has uppset yuo and that you aint going to be made a fool of anymore.
good luck and i hope everything goes ok for you both in the future.
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