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writes: Hi there, A few months ago I left my wife to live with a girl I met at work, we have known each other for 2 years and always got on really well, she left her husband because he would not let her go out with her friends and kept her in his sight all the time. I left my wife because I felt I did not love her anymore and needed to move on. we lived together for 2 months but her daughter missed her dad and eventually she left me and moved back in with her husband just so the daughter would be happy, I also went back to my wife to give it a go. We are still in contact and very much in love, she knows how much she wants to leave and be with me but she is very reluctant to leave because of her daughters happiness. There is not a day passes without us thinking of each other. Should she stay with a man she doesn't love just so her 10 year old daughter is happy or is she better making a break now?Her husband is not the daughters real dad he's just been there since she was 3 years old but she has no contact with her real father.ThanksPeter
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (21 September 2006):
 Well, I really dont think that this is your call to make and I think that, rather than inform her descision, you have to let her make her own. Having said that, as the child of a broken-home I would point that if asked then I would most likely say 'no, she shouldn't' because in the long run if she puts herself in a postion where she is unhappy then this will eventually feed through to her daughter and, in the long-run, most likely do more harm than good. Hope that helps.
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