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My boyfriend told me it was him or the smoking, Im finding it hard what can I do ?

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Question - (17 September 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 September 2006)
A female , *onfussed jane writes:

my boyfriend told me to pick him or smoking i picked him but finiding it hard what can i do.

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A female reader, Toria +, writes (18 September 2006):

Toria agony auntWill power and if that fails go to see your doctor who will give you some advice and some information on what you can do and who can help you in quitting.

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A female reader, Amethyst United States +, writes (17 September 2006):

Amethyst agony auntYou just have to have the will power to fight against your withdrawel symptoms, after a while, it won't be hard at all! Smoking is a terrible habit, so just think next time you crave one, "Well, at least my breath isn't going to smell so repulsing anymore..." or "My lungs aren't going to look like a lump of coal by the time I'm {insert age ten years above yours}."

There are other methods if you're one of weak will, try the gum, the patches, something of that nature. But, in all honesty, your best option is cold turkey.

Good luck with it! Be strong!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2006):

Smoking - you just got to go cold turkey for awhile. My dad forced himself to stop one day after smoking for about 30 years. Try this link - or just do a search on Google:

http://www.mnwelldir.org/docs/misc/smoke.htm

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A female reader, Tine United Kingdom +, writes (17 September 2006):

Tine agony auntsmoking is very hard to give up and obviously if your boyfriend isnt a smoker he wont realise actualy how hard it is to give up. So make your choice. If its to stop smoking then really do try however whilst trying make him notice just actually how hard it is and let him to see how much of an effort your putting in to it. Maybe he will come round to the fact that it is hard and with him seeing just how hard you are trying he might just come around.

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