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writes: okay so ive been wih my gf for a couple of months now everything seemed to be going fine, w had a greta night the other day together until my younger brother walked in on us, im 15 and she 14, but yesterday she went to a friends party and came back and told me this monring she kissed her best friends crush whilst she was there, i still love her and she sounded genuinely sorry about it and so upset, but ive been messed about before and became a bit jealous about girls because of it, this time ive been fine because we've been so good together and now its happened again at just the righ time, i want to stay with her but im confused, i know it sounds a bit over dramatic but i dont know what to do, help
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2006): if this girl really liked/or/loved you in the first place she wouldnt have to kiss another guys to be happy.
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reader, Toria +, writes (18 September 2006):
 Everyone deserves a second chance! It's what they do with that second chance that matters, you will know the answer to what you want to do in your heart but if you give her that second chance make sure she knows she messed up and knows this is it her one and only chance.
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reader, ogga +, writes (17 September 2006):
ogga is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni agree with you all really, im going to give her another chance and try to not be watchful/obsessive about it as we are only young and shit happens so im going to have to get over it arent i? lol but yeah im going to give her another chance with things and just go for it, and to martini yes i do to the middle questions, but i dont know about the first and last ones, so yeah, im just going to see how things go :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2006): Well u can't expect much at that age - generally. There is a whole refinement process that you and her is lacking in personality and experience. Think about it, how do you know you are what she really wants? Heck, do you know what type of career you want? What type of program/education you want? What type of lifestyle you want? What type of experiences you want?
With that said, this is up to you to accept or not. If you have a problem about it, then work it out. Anyone can say sorry, but actions dictate people's sincerity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2006): im a girl and i did sumthing like that to my bf, pls be a good guy and forgive her! things like that happen sometimes! i bet she really is truly sry, just give her another chance, and dont be like super watchfull over her, just forget about what happend and give her enother chance
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