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writes: Dear Cupid,Last year one of my friends asked me out and I said no! He didnt take it bad and later on we became best friends....we ended the school year in a fight! I thought everything was going downhill...this year i realised, he started hanging out with completely different people. And started writing hate mails to me saying that he dosn't care about me anymore. It upset me. But yesterday i was talking to him, and he asked me why we can't be friends again...i told him why and he got upset and left! I havn't contacted him since. What should I do?Confused
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reader, claire_x100 +, writes (17 September 2006):
 I think you deserve an explanation for the way hes acting,if you wanna be firneds with him then say:
Look i do wont to be friends with you but what was that hate mail about, and explain how you feel.
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You could just not talk to him let him come back to you.
and if he dont loose contact with him. Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2006): I'm with Martini. Why do anything? He has made it quite clear where he stands (sending hate mail and then expecting to be friends with you) and you have told him why you don't want him as a friend.
End of story. Leave it alone. That's all that is necessary.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2006): Don't do anything. Why do you need to? If you care about him and you want to stay friends with him, then go for it. If you don't want to, then don't do anything.
There is nothing to be confused about. This isn't a multiple choice dilemma. Of the 300 or so people I've met and see every now and then, I'm only really friends with about 10 of them.
[ponders and smirks] And why would u even want to continue a friendship with someone with such an unstable mind and emotion - sending hate mail? Come on. That's more than a tad immature. That's very unprincipled as far as friends and potential friends go - even if s/he is mad at you.
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