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writes: My man and I have been together for the last 17 months we have split many times mainly over my drinking but the last time i went on a bender was around 6 wks ago when i found out he posted him and me on a few sexual sites without my knowledge he has since returned home and i am getting help for my drinking and depression and am also going to couples councilling on my own as he says he dont wanna go tonight i went to fetch him home he was totally worse for ware he has picked on me my kids and the dog its as if i have another person back and not the one who left he has started to behave differently towards me he says there is no one else and he says there never has been but he seems to think im low life now and he used to have respect now theres non ive done so much to change for him i dont no what else to do Reply to this Question
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (22 October 2006):
 Hey,
first of all, well done about doing something about your drinking and depression. It shows that you know you want to change and become a better, happier person - good for you!
Have you ever thought maybe someone has talked to him or something and he may feel, for want of better words, tied down? With kids and a woman by his side, it takes away what he can see as the "free life" of being single. As a man, what he can't see is the new and improved life he has now. Maybe that's why he posted you on those sexual sites, to make him feel that he's with a sexy, free woman with no responsibility? At the end of the day you don;t know what's going on in his head, all you can do is give him some space and try to bring some more fire/sparkle into your lives to make him see he really is blessed to have somone like you.
Hope this helped you,
Phoebe xxXxx
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