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writes: I need help on how to get over thoughts. EVERYONE has crazy thoughts but some people that could have OCD obsess over the thoughts. Ok, you know how little kids do crazy sexual things when they are young. Well, i thought i raped another kid when i was a kid but everyone tells me it's not rape because i was a kid and you know how that goes. Anyways, some people said i should go to a rape support group just to prove to myself it wasn't rape. Well, last night i was thinking and stuff and thoughts were going through my head about rape or doing stuff against someone's will and i thought of myself doing that to people and my own boyfriend! I would never rape someone and it's not like i actually want to think about it. crazy stuff pops in my head and everyone also tells me everyone has crazy thoughts but they just let them go and think nothing of them. How can i make myself think nothing of them? I am going to a psychologist for other reasons and i could bring this up but i was just wondering how to deal with it until then. Thanks!!! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, eddie +, writes (21 October 2006):
If you're alreaady seeing a psychologist, bring it up. It's a piece of the puzzle that needs to come out. OCD can be treated with medication and cognitive therapy but it takes work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2006): definitley bring it up to your psychologist....i have recently been diagnosed with ocd, and know that its impossible to just "let go" of bothersome thoughts. im currently on medication, although there is cognital therapy i believe that you could try if you in fact have ocd. just dont feel bad for having them, they are not your fault! for a person with ocd, its incredibly hard to control what they think, and often times its thoughts that most people would be appalled to hear. trust me, i've grown up with it. you will be ok though, just try and get some help! good luck. :)
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