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writes: my boyfriend and i went out for 2 and a half weeks, everything was amazing and going great,then he just starts acting wierd, and says that he doesnt want a serious relationship and wants to go out and have fun and is afraid he will hurt me and all this stuff, he still likes me a little and i like him. what should i do?! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, xLEAHx +, writes (20 October 2006):
Sorry hunny but im affraid im gonna have to agree with DR PHYC it sounds as if he is just not interested all he wanted was a bit of fun something casual..i think he was trying to let you down gently..so its time for you to move on ..im sure your eventually find the right guy for you..try not to be upset about it because everyone goes through this at some stage in thier lives..some people are just out there to have fun with no strings..
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (20 October 2006):
There is very little you can do unfortunately. You only dated for a short time - think of it as a bit of a fling that didn't work out and move on. You cannot change his feelings towards you and it doesn't sound like he is that into you. That doesn't have to be negative though - it is better you found out early on into the relationship instead dragging along in a relationship that is going no-where. It is ok to still like him but there will be other guys out there who are 100% into you and won't get cold feet. Try not to feel bad about it, it happens to everyone at some stage.
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