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writes: ohk so there is this guy i really really really like i mean we were friends and then lovers then friends then lovers then we broke up now he has a gf but he admitted last month he still had feelings for me he just for some reason didnt want to go out with me...and i think he knos i really really really still like him i dont miss him that much and i try not to think about him but sometimes when i see him with her i remember i wonder if he thinks the same about me except i dont have a bf people asked me out but i always said no and he knos that people asked me out and i said no one of them was his friend and yeah well he flirts with me but if someone asks him he says no i wasnt flirting with her it could just be that he doesnt want to admit it because of his gf..but i dont kno any wayz he flirts with me then the next day i guess he heard something and he started gettin mad at me and i got tired of drama so i ignored it and my friend said maybe he is just trying to ignore you just to see what your reaction is going to be she said because thats what someone did to her then the next day a guy that likes me almost got in a fight with my ex because he thought my ex was miss treating me then the same day my ex tried to get in a fight with him over the same thing but my ex went lookin for him does that mean he still likes me?? and that same day we became friends again. but now he still flirts with me in class and yeah he calls me by nicknames he makes up and yeah..does he still like me what should i do??
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reader, Beckah +, writes (20 October 2006):
Have you ever heard of those relationships that could never work. I had a highschool sweetheart i suppose you could call him that. Anyways me and him were off and on again all the way through school, liked each other enough, it was just not good timing. Either i wasn't ready, or he wasn't, we hung around indifferent groups and socialised differently...understand what i am getting at, or is this clear as dirt?
Basically, you can like someone so much you feel like your going to implode, but that doesn't mean your right for each other. It takes a lot more than that to establish whether teo people work, or just dont work at all. Maybe he does really like you too, but he's realised in his own time that you two are better off friends for the time being than anything more.
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