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writes: im new to the dating game and haven't been part of it since i was a teenager ten yrs ago because of a past long term relationship.anyway my dilema is that i recently went out to a nightclub where i live and met someone,his really nice and we get on great. since i met him we have texted and chatted on the phone everyday but we haven't been able to meet up again yet due to his work committments(he has to go to different places for his work)although he lives not too far from me when he does eventually have time off.Anyway after 2 wks of constant texting and calls this wkend i texted and have still not heard nothing bk for 2 days, im worried that he has lost interest.is this just me being too clingy or does it mean he could be playing it cool or just plain not bothered.thank you if anyone can help me out im just so confused by how things work in the adult dating world.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): Don't worry about it girlfriend. I've met plenty of guys in clubs and had great times with them while we were AT THE CLUB. Sometimes we've even had breakfast after and remember everyone is happy and in a joyful mood especially when ÁLCHOHOL is involved. If you don't hear from him again its fine. You didn't give up the goodies so don't worry. I meet guys all the time at clubs, and you must remember like my dad told me when you meet these men understand that they already have things going on in their lives and besides you don't know him so you should keep you're distance and let him reveal who he is. And honestly if you hear from him and you feel like he's full of it. Chances are HE IS! Keep in mind a lot of these men have wives, girlfriends and whatever else going on already. So he might just be doing you a HUGE favor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2006): Sounds to me like it might be best to stop sending him daily texts back off and see if he doesn't come around, be a little hard to get yourself...and his interest should pick up.
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