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writes: When should I call him back? out of blue, my ex-bf called me this afternoon and left a message after 3-month non-communication. Basically he just wanted to check up with me,but I did not have anything exciting and new to update my life except I have a new bf now. The reason I feel I am not ready to return his call is I still have strong feelings for him, and yes, he is still the only one i have loved, and love more than anyone in my life. But we don't match, he never pay serious attention to me. But I know I am his unforgotten girlfriend because I have done every nice things a girlfriend had done to her beloved bf and he said he would miss me deadly when we graduated and broke up. The mistake I made is being into this relationship and taking this too seriously too early in our relationship. He is a big party fan and party across the world during his MBA study period. and he sounds like so many girls around him throughout our dating. If he doesn't call for a day I think he will never call (he always does), and if hechanges plans (usually with a good reason) Ithink he is pulling away. Then I will go out with other guys asked me out and in this way to forget and forgive him.We both cheated on each other, but I am the one who felt horribly regretful since I know deep down I love him and only him! That is the only big mistake I made in our relationship. But the pains and cheating he gave me even he did not admit but someone else told me totally ruined my trust. I love him without trust, I do not know why, after so many guys, he is still the one I dream about everyday, and think of him frequently in tears-Should I call him or shall I wait longer time when I am ready and totally get over him? If I call him now, is there any possiblity that we can come back to each other? If I do not call now but wait a longer time maybe 4 months later, will I miss him forever? We are in the different cities but I am going to move to his city after finding a new job there, should I wait until then or I just call him back now to say hello and see what happens?He totally mess up my world, and made my life miserable. I am actually afraid to call him back because I am not ready to get hurt again if he does not change anything. I will feel hurt if he has a new gf now even though I am with a new one. I tried to love my current bf but deep inside, he is the only one I could love with all of my heart and soul.
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