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writes: i am a 22 years old guy, and my problem is that i very often get serious with every girl i feel in love.i mean i as soon i get in to a relation i start thinking about marriage and all that stuff.i am presently in love with a girl and i am dam serious about it and because of that i just allways think about her i cant concentrate anything else.my friends says neve take these things seriously or u ll miss the fun. so what should i do.i mean even the girl seems serious about me but she doesnt mekes it reflect on her life as such.so why does it happens to me that when i am in love i cant think any thing else. Reply to this Question
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (14 October 2006):
 Simple, you are the type of guy who would prefer to find the right girl and settle down. I am the same as you. I have never been the type of guy to go around having one night stands and casual relationships.
I was 14 when I had my first real girlfriend, I thought she was 'the one' and was with her for 2 years. Then was with a girl for 3 years, then 9 years, now I have been with this girl who I eventually plan to marry. I put all my love and devotion into these relationships, but sometimes things just aren't meant to be.
My relationship now is unusual, very strange circumstances and maybe fate has brought us together. She is 13 years younger, but I have never felt like this about anybody.
I have always taken my relationships seriously and have had more fun than most. The feeling of true love completely overshadows the feeling of 'casual fun'.
You will meet the right girl and totally understand what I am saying.
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