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writes: say if ... you have been in a long term relationship for 5yrs..and say if you kno that you wudnt ever be able to live with out your partner..but on the other hand..youve always had feelings for some1 else..n then say if..in 6 months time you are going to get married to your long term partner..but theres a little voice in your head telling you that you need to find out whether 'the otha person' has the same feelings for you..what would u do? would you keep it all in..n neva speak another word..becuz u kno u love ur partner and could loose two very good relationships (partner and freind)..or would u take the risk..and speak your mind? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2006): Wow, you are in a pickle! Why did it take you 5 years to get engaged to your current partner if she is the one? Just wondering that seems a bit long to take the plunge...also, I don't think the measure of love is the idea that you can't live without someone, you can and you must if you are a healthy human being...you don't want to be just dependent you want to be in love and be willing to sacrifice and sacrifice all others to be the love of your spouses life....if you do not feel that you can deliver for what ever reason, the little voice in your head that you may want someone else if she would only have you, you owe it to yourself, your finance and the other woman to follow your heart and your gut....good luck.
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