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writes: help me please i like this boy but i don't no how to tell him do i carry on as normal or just go and tell him! but if i tell him i am scared ov loosing our friendship i have been thinkin about this for a while and i just cant get the answer. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2006): If this fellow is your friend and you spend a lot of time with him as such but want more, I don't think you should tell him how you feel, but instead show him. I would first cut off all contact with him for awhile and be unavailable when he calls to spend time with you, maybe 2 weeks, be mysterious, if he has feelings for you he will go crazy wondering what is up....then you can give in and spend some time with him, but I would try touching him in a non-sexual way, continue to be his friend but command his respect, do not take him taking you for granted for instance, I would make a plan to do something together on a specific date and get him to commit to the date and time, and wait for him to call you, be unavailable until the date, this will get him used to behaving like a boyfriend instead of a friend...and then you will just have to wait and see what happens, be persistent, but not needy and you will have some success I bet.
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reader, beleiveitbabyx3 +, writes (14 October 2006):
 okay first off, ive been in this situation and probably alot of others too. But you should definatly try to tell him how you feel. my tips are to get his number if you havent already and call him at home to take away any embarrasment you may feel of telling him in public or person to person. Next be sort of like "well i dont want to loose our friendship over this but i really like you as more than a friend" and he will definatly say something it may take him a few minutes but he should come around. Try not to make it like just come right out. talk to him for a little before you say anything like that. again i would definatly tell him. because hem might just like you back. GOOD LUCK WITH THIS BOY!
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