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writes: Hey... i guess i have a story to tell. I have been going out with this guy for about 7 weeks now, and everything has been going great. He's my best friend's brother. Anyway, tonight we went to a "get together" at a friend's house and I ended up getting rather drunk. At one point, the other people at said get together went to the supermarket to get something and the only people in the house were me, my boyfriend and the woman hosting the party. I was watching tv and didn't like the show that was on so i went to find my boyfriend. I discovered him in the host's room laying on top of her and it looked like they were making out. I stood there for a little bit, not knowing what to think. Then went to the bathroom and it just hit me what they were doing and i cried. I talked to my boyfriend about 20 minutes after that and he said he was just hugging her. I don't know what to think... she is like 15 years older than him (we are both 18). But i don't know whether to believe what i saw in my drunken-ness or what he said what happened... He said he was sorry that i thought that, but i still can't get the image of the 2 out of my head. I can't talk to my best friend (boyfriend's brother as mentioned) about it until monday morning... but it just shocked me. Should i believe what i think i saw or what my boyfriend's account of what happened? I just don't know what to do.......
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2006): Hey honey even if your boyf didn't know what was goin the other lady certainly did!!!!!!
Walk away from him! I mean if he's doin that kind of "hugging" with you at the same party what is up to behind your back that you don't kno about??? Think girlie think...
There's loads of other guys more worthy and who would have a lot more respect for you!!!! He's trying to have his cake and eat it too - holding on to you while he's looking out for some one else!!!
Walk away...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2006): girl! if that was me..and i saw my boyfreind laying on another woman..apparently 'hugging her'..theres still noway id let him off that easliy..why the hell would he need to lay on top of her to hug her? guys can be abit pathetic at times..no offence to the good'ens out there...i reckon hes playing you for a fool...you saw what you saw..hes tryin to worm his way outa it..i say u shud defo keep ur eye on that one! freind x
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