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writes: I met this guy January and we began a relationship right away. I was moving to another country shortly after we met and told him so, but he insited we still date to "see what happened". I am not a person who gets attached, probably cause I've moved every 2 years since I was 10. After dating him for 2 months, him and I were inseparable and I stayed an extra month simply cause I didn't want to leave him. We fell in love and I left. He asked for a long distance relationship and we tried it. Tehn he broke it off (he said he couldn't stand how sad and upset I always was). Months later he emailed me and we started on the love path again, and I scheduled to visit him in 2 weeks. He just dumped me again.What can I do? I love him more than anything, and will do anything to get him back.
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reader, Love Rockx my Sockx +, writes (14 October 2006):
Aww well thats the scariest thing about love - it will survive under any circumstances but only if u allow it to. i applaud u for keeping ure ground and moving away instead of surrendering to him and giving up on ure plans.
U have to be honest with him and talk to him; even meet up in person if its possible and tell him how u feel. Maybe he is confused which is why he has broken up with u as he's afraid of getting hurt and this is why he is "messed up." The long distance thing is a massive factor but if it is TRUE love - then it will work. If its meant to be, then its meant to be.
Xx Good Luck xX :):) !!
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