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writes: Hello, I started my new job in advertising 3 months ago and at work there is this one guy who just acts really peculiar. I have talked to him on a number of occasions. He also works in advertising and several weeks ago we were both working on similar projects and so I lent him some of my project posters and he gave me his number..anyways so we exchanged numbers. Well, I was very busy for the next couple of weeks and I didn’t really hear from him but I saw him on a number of occasions and it seemed to me that although he wouldn’t really talk to me he would try and get my attention in a really subtle way. Well out of the blue he sent me some of his work without me asking for it. So I decided to send him a text asking him whether he would help me with a project I’m working on at the moment…the thing is I haven’t heard from him, I’m not really bothered, the question I have is that I thought he wanted to be friends, so why is he acting distant? Also why does it seem that he makes an advance one minute and completely backs off another minute? I know that he is in a relationship because I have seen him with his partner at at a company event, I am single.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (10 May 2006):
 I think you may be readin into something that just isn't there because you fancy this guy. Back off and do not encourage him at all. If he has a partner he shouldn't be behaving like this anyhow! If he really is interested he will make all the running.
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reader, Anja +, writes (10 May 2006):
 Probably likes you, but is trying to surpress his feelings as does'nt want to get involved due to him being in a reltionship. Sounds like he feels frustrated and that quite possibly his reltionship is not going well. Try and steer clear of him for a bit if you can, and don't encourage him!
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