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writes: my boyfriend and father to my son of almost three years, cheated on me with a friend and next door neighbor.he did it several times and lost his job, spent money on her while i fought to pay bills. it's been about four months and I still can't seem to move on with our realintionship,, how do i know if it's really worth a second chance
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reader, bonym +, writes (9 May 2006):
My dear I am so sorry to hear that you were cheated on, its not fair that you had togo through that, but my friend I would suggest that you give yourself some time to think carefully what you want to do next. He is the father of your child and perhaps it would be wrong of me to just say throw him out, but on the other hand he has treated you very badly and you dont want to go through that again, if he does cheat again. I suggest you have some time by yourself to think i.e. have a trial separation and if you feel you are ok without him. I hope all goes well. xXx
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