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writes: Just need a little help. Met up with my ex last week after three months apart. He left me for someone else. Anyway, at our meeting he told me things were not working out between them and our meeting ended in him kissing me - which left me stunned. I want my ex back and I am trying to play it cool but I am worried that he may now feel guilty about the kiss with him still seeing this other guy. Will the kiss push me further away. How should I react? Should I get in touch with him. He says he is still thinking about us.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2006): This guy dosen't sound worth it to me hun. He only comes back to you when it isn't working out with his current g/f, and wants you back?!
He should be wanting you back because he loves you, not keeping you as a back-up plan for when his other relationships don't work out!
My advice is to move on, it's not worth the heartbreak.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2006): Do you not find this a little insulting? Your ex left you for someone else, and then comes back a scant few months later to tell you its not working out, how much he misses you, and then he makes a move? Do you not feel like he was maybe keeping you around as a back-up plan when his latest fling went sour? Maybe it's presumptuous on my part, but this guy sounds like a fickle and disrespectful person, to both you AND his current boyfriend. You need to turn the tables and show him that you won't always be there waiting for him when he's bored with his new boy. Going back to him under these particular circumstances sets a really dangerous precedent for any future relationship. Keep playing it cool, and move on.
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