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writes: i recently caught my wife having an affair with a married man. i confronted her with it and i think it has stopped. i did speak to this man's wife so i know he has pressure on him. pretty confident its over. however now a month later i notice my wife acting suspicious with her cell phone. she's big into text messaging now. i know she's been text messaging another guy several times a day, early mornings and around 8 pm at night on a daily basis. i confronted her with this and she says he's just a friend. it would seem that she would be sensitive to what we just went through and not risk my suspicions or do anything like this and risk our marriage. she's 47 i'm 51 we've been married 20 years and have 2 teenager. i don't think men and women, especially married would be text messaging each other several, maybe 8-10 times a day unless there was something going on. i don't know how they met but they do not work together.readers, your thoughts please, especially from the female point of view. what is she up to ? confused in alabama
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reader, iamsoscrewedup333 +, writes (11 May 2006):
I agree with willywombat, I think that she is trying to make you be the one to leave her. Like she said, once you can maybe forgive, but twice and in such a short time? That is just too much..LEAVE HER
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2006): I think it would be very wise to say that she is having another affair on you. I hope that I am wrong, but I don't think so. Hope things work out. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2006): I think she is having a nother affair. Try and convince her to get some help, counseling. I hope everything works out for you.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (9 May 2006):
 I think she is actively looking for a way out of your marriage. Maybe by giving you cause to divorce her so she doesn't have to make the decision herself. Do you want to still be with her after her unfaithfullness? Once can be a *mistake* but I feel twice is becoming a bit of a habit.
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