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writes: i've met this really great guy and we get on really well, he's good looking, funny, in a band...but...he does drugs, not sure exactly what...'shrooms n hash i think. Im not saying that i don't go out and get drunk but drugs are different. Do you think its okay that he does drugs?? Do most guys do them anyway??
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reader, prttymtlkitty +, writes (9 May 2006):
 I would be weary of the marijuana use for the simple fact it seems to make some emotionally unavailable. Then you have to think of how your relationship might be affected as it progresses especially if its hibitual. You have to consider how big of a priority this seems to be in his life. Get the facts first and decide if this is something you want in your life.
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reader, bonym  +, writes (9 May 2006):
 Well for me personally it is not acceptable to use drugs, but I am me and you are you and we all have different opinions. If he is using Marijuana, this is quite common among a lot of young people, but if he is regularly using it are you happy to put up with a guy who is stoned all the time, has blood shot eyes and is spaced out? Only you can answer that my friend. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2006): Why are drugs and alcohol so different?
If his drug use is an obvious problem (e.g. it is affecting his life, or your relationship) That is a reason to break up.
If he is doing them and you are thinking of moving on just because your perception of drugs is really negative I think you should think twice and look at just how different drug and alcohol usage actually is.
Don't let something you don't understand ruin what seems a good relationship.
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