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writes: Okay I have known this guy for about 10 years and we have always got on well, he would always ask me out when we first met but I always said no because I felt that we where friends and I didnt want to lead him on when I never saw anything happening between us, basically I didnt want to complicate the situtation.He has a girlfriend but their relationship is more off than on. I see him all the time and he always teases me and they are split up now, he says its permanent and he always did flirt with me but now he seems to be hinting at something happening between us, I dont know what to do because I actually really like him now and am developing feelings for him but I feel a bit like Id be dating someone elses boyfriend- What should I do if he makes a move?
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reader, flipdrew +, writes (8 January 2006):
 run! even if you like him, the chances of a repaet incident are high. if he got bored with his current girlfriend and is now looking for something "bigger and better" what's to say he won't get bored of you and do the same thing later on. Cheaters are more often than not "repeat offenders"
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (4 January 2006):
 Dearie, i agree with happytochat. what are u waiting for really? You two seem to like each other. You might regret it if u let him go again.
He is single now and u wouldnt be dating someone else boyfriend. He did mention that they have permanently broken up. Some break up are usually difficult and it goes off and on for sometime before it ends. That is what probably happened.
Ten years friendship and the hots for each other, i say he is worth giving a chance!!!
Good luck dear
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (4 January 2006):
YES! make a move! Deffintly, if you didn't I think you would be making a HUGE mistake. This guy likes you! So go go for it! Trust me its not every day that you will find a guy who is like your best frined then fall in love with, -oonly once every blue moon, so don't miss it!
He said that there relationship is deffintly ended, so you won't be dating someone elses bf. Do you feel that way though because him and her have always been on and off, so you really don't believe that this time its over? Well I think maybe he has finaly realise that he doenst feel for her that way and still has feelings for you and has probably picked up on that you like him. So go on, ask him out on a offical date! Or just say 'im starting to have feelings for you as in more then a friend.'
Good luck! Not that you need it! :)
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