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writes: hello,i liked this guy for almost a decade - apparently he liked me once. our friendship was strongest when i listened to his love problems through the years. well it turned pretty ignorant in the past year or so. i finally told him and now we're barely talking. then along came this other guy - and he happens to be my teacher. trying to cheer me up. we got together for a month - we broke itoff today. he couldnt take it anymore. he gives so much, i dont even show up. what is wrong with me? this is what happened with my friends before - they invite me out, i dont go. i feel so bad, he did so much for me and i know a lot about his personal life because we became friends through that. now he wants to go back to 'normal' and is angry at himself for what has happened. we love each other, but then, i dont know.
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reader, intouch +, writes (2 December 2006):
 this man has let you know all his most intermit moments, if you let him know how you feel, did you hear how he feels? if your barely talking maybe that is an insight, he must be very vunerable right now and at your mercy, that is not a safe feeling, silence for him maybe just a place to decide to talk like you did or just to run scared.
if this man has held your affections for so long, then dont expect to just flick a switch and be able to put 100% into a sympathetic ear, i think you are not following your heart, sence and love have never gone hand in hand, follow your heart and be true, the right things then will come to you, but never live with regret, take care of your self xx
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