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writes: I have cheated a few times in my three year relationship with my boyfriend. I am 19 years old and have kissed a few other guys while being drunk and stupid. If I know in my heart that this was just stupidity and I love my boyfriend very much is this forgiveable?
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (6 December 2006):
 well it was not serious it was just kissing but if u are not willing to commit let people go and life ur life as u want there's nothin' wrong with that if u'r sure this is the one then commit a bit it doesn't mean u have to marry ger pregnant an all that it means bein faitful and talk about your fears and feelings openly
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI also wanted to include that I have had issues in the past with cheating and I think that I have just been too immature for these serious relationships. That last relationship I was in was also 3 years and as soon as it ended I got into this relationship, so that may also be a contributor to the cheating. I'm not saying that these are excuses but rather reasons as to why I have cheated, but I have woken up now b/c the thought of loosing the one I'm with would absolutely kill me b/c I know in my heart that I can not live without him he is the one for me. I hope that he will be able to forgive me and eventually forget the incidents.
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reader, Astrid +, writes (2 December 2006):
NOt really I have been drunk and not kissed or had sex despite the chances I had and it was not appropriate though forgiveness is up to you I have had girl mates who had kissed guys just for a go when clubbing despite having boyfriends, you have to talk and set limits to relationships
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2006): This is forgiveable, but if it were me, one chance is all she will get. Doesn't matter how stupid she feels after kissing another guy. The fact remains = why did you get drunk in the first place? Why did not control your drinking habits, and drink responsibly?
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