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writes: I have trouble talking to guys at first. I dont know how to get them to notice me, and when I do, I can't start the conversation. I used to be totally outgoing, but now not so much because I've been hurt so many times....what are some good ways to start a conversation?
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reader, carzmt  +, writes (23 April 2007):
men are just like children want attenshion all the time and
break your heart
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2006): yup - once you get out there the wildes things will happen when you least expect them. it's great, but be careful - learn from your past! i once read that the past is a good guidepost but dont use it as a hitching post =) mebbe the first step you can take to recovery is finding a true friend to have some fun with. that's avery solid step you can take. takes time, but it works. =) all the best
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (1 December 2006):
 Sometimes you need to kiss a lot of frogs before you meet your prince. Dont allow your past experience stop you from enjoying life.
Perhaps you have been other guys in the wrong place, wrong time.
If you were outgoing before, then just be yourself, life is to short.
Guys dont normally talk to girls who look grumpy in the corner. If they do is because they feel sorry for you or they want to pounce because they think you are vulnerable therefore easy to take advantage of. And that's not a good start.
Get out there, take control and live your life!
Allow yourself to have fun! Lots of hugs xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2006): You have to get back out there and show them what you are made of. That was a saying my dad used to say to me if i just broke up with someone.
Get your glad rags on, arrange to meet your mates and have a night on the town TONIGHT!!! Get out there and be in their faces. Just be yourself. Forget about the idiots in the past, they are not worth a part of your brain. Have a good laugh with your friends, relax and enjoy life. You will meet someone when you least expect to and when you are most relaxed but dont get P*ssed.
Take care
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reader, whitetie +, writes (1 December 2006):
Dear anonymous.
Being a guy myself. I will give you information that no girl believes but it is true!
A guy always notices a girl. Many women believe that if a guy isnt looking directly at them ,they automatically dont like her. Just, Next time you walk into a bar or club (Be yourself), mingle with your friends (we are always attracted to large groups of women). The guy should always make the first move. I believe that there is some1 for every1 & you just have not yet found him. Forget that other guy that hurt you. That has been put aside. Focus on the "new" you. The confident you.
You will Knock them dead. Dont be nervous. Let me know how you get on
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