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writes: okay well ... my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 years. we just also had a baby together 4 months ago. and well he has this ex gf who got married and moved away and he got her prego a long time ago and she got an abortion, and well she just moved back here. well i guess a couple of months ago he was at our friends house painting and i didnt go b/c i was prego and couldnt be around the paint. our friend who is also this girls cusin got mad at my bf one day and sent me a text message telling me how he was going to cheat on me with his ex when she came back up here. she was telling me that he was telling her how he cant wait to see her and have sex with her and he misses her so much etc. and well he denys this to the fullest he gets soo defencive and told me i was ruining his life with all this bullshit. he just got sent to jail and well me and this girl started talking and she was telling me that before she moved cause she only moved away for almost a year b/c her hubby had to go to iraq , that before she moved my bf called her and told her he was single and that he missed her and wanted to go back out with her and that he was driving to her house and she told him no. but we were together at this time. around the same time last year my bf purpossed to me, so we are engaged and he wont stop telling me that he cant wait to marry me. but when i confront him about all this he yells at me. o yeah and also around the time this happened to second time with the text message him and that girl who he helped paint her house our friend well they started talking again and she called his phone so i told him to put it on speaker cause i wanted to hear and she was talking to him and in the middle of the convo she goes so do u want me to call her and he just looked at me funny and said call who? and she goes my causin or is your gf up ur ass! and he told her he had to go.....this means that he was cheating on me or planning on cheating me? and he is deffently lying ? i cant marry some one if this is what they are going to do... so please give me your input on what u think and u would do if this was you...thanx! o yeah they have also known eachother for 13 years.
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (30 December 2006):
 sounds like someone is mad at your bf and they are creating drama so to cause you and your fiance to break up! Don't believe it! They are just into creating chaos because they are not happpy with their lives!!
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reader, EileenNellie +, writes (1 December 2006):
 For god's sake, ignore these people! Of course your bf is mad at you for bringing this up, I would be too, if i was pretty much accused of things based on an obvius attempt by bored, jealous girls to cause trouble! You are doing just what they want, by letting it get to you, and causing you and your bf to fight. Why wouldn't he have stayed w/his ex, if he wants to be w/her so bad? Hmmm...maybe because he doesn't feel that way at all. Don't have anything to do w/these pathetic, immature brats, and don't mention them, or anything related to them to your bf again. I bet things will go smoothly once you quit letting them manipulate you and your personal life. It sounds as if your bf is already aware of how stupid these girls are. (could that be why one of them is an ex, and not a current girlfriend?)
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