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writes: What's the best way to just disconnect with my ex. She just broke up with the guy she was seeing and I'm dying to be with her but she just doesn't seem to be interested and almost seems to go out of her way sometimes to avoid me at get together. I mean, we talk sometimes, but she seems more interested in hanging on some other guy at a party rather than conversing with me. I'm happy in my life except for this situation. I can go a week or two without talking but it's hard to go further. We've been broken up for long enough (btw, we have the same friends so it's even harder).Thanks.
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (2 December 2006):
 I had the same problem. I just stayed away from her and our mutual friends. Its hard as hell but it is possible. After about 2 months she was calling me and asking me out but by that time I had realized I could live my life without her, yet I still had feelings for her so I stayed away until I had my feelings in check.
Just get out and meet new people and make new friends that are only your friends. This will take your mind off of your ex and these new people will introduce you to more new people. Try it for 2 months maybe three. Take time to get and know yourself, because before you got with her you liked your situation and life. Find that again. It doesn't hurt forever. Good Luck.
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (1 December 2006):
 You will not be able to move if you have constant contact. If she is not into you that way anyway, let go!
It is hard but the longer you leave it the more hurt you bring yourself.
Be strong and find a girl who can love you back the same way. Good luck and lots of hugs.
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