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writes: have been with my boyfriend for 6 mths . 2 of those mths he has moved away to a new job. literally half an hour away by plane. he has decided to end it cause the distance is to far and his feelings are not strong enough he won't talk how can I get him to talk to me and sort this out Reply to this Question
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (23 May 2006):
 I don't think you can get him to sort it out. I think he has started a new life without you and I think he has fully moved on. I know this will hurt to hear, but I think you should as well.
I hope you will be ok.
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reader, Toria +, writes (23 May 2006):
 Do you really want to talk to him and try and sort it out when he has caved at the first hurdle in your relationship? he obviously doesnt feel your relationship is as important or as strong as what he now has with his new job and new life, i would let it go for now give him time to think about what he is throwing away and if you still want to try and work it out with him then try and call him in a few days.
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reader, shania +, writes (23 May 2006):
 From what you are saying,it sounds like the distance is too far away for him to put his energies into,he is probably too preoccupied with his new job...new home and the relationship didn't feel that strong enough to with hold.Saying that,he might start to miss you and then try talking to you,but only if he feels he wants to...all you can do is wait...i wouldn't try contacting him,just wait and see if he does start to miss you but i wouldn't wait for too long,its been 2 mths now, so say after another couple of weeks there isn't any contact with him then you will have to let him go.
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