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female
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anonymous
writes: for the last couple of times me and my boyfriend have tried to have sex its gone wrong. everything is going well then as soon as we get a condom out he loses his erection. why? what can we do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2007): I have this problem as well. Have always had it and tried everything (my partner putting the condom on with her mouth, some porn etc etc), but its just no good I have the condom phobia. Think its a mental thing plus I really cant feel anything with it on. Thats why I try to stick to one partner where we both get checked for sti's and she takes the pill. Thats the only way we can enjoy sex! Goodluck!
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2006): Alot of blokes dont like the way they feel and can lose it at the thought of putting it on or after its on etc. Its down to less stimulation. I dont wanna give you too much info but i prefer the feel of a woman instead of a peice of rubber between us etc..
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reader, willywombat +, writes (22 May 2006):
I have had a couple of Bf's who have had this self same problem. Often it is to do with the lack of spontaneity, struggling to put on the condom or emabarrassment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2006): Probably nervous, even though he wont admit it.
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