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writes:ive been going out wit my current boyfriend for two months (yesterday) and i am completely in love with him and adore him. the problem is that im starting to wonder if he is still in love with me, even though he says he is, actions speak louder than words. everytime he says he is going to meet me on the weekends at a club i go to he never turns up and doesnt bother to call to let me know. also whenever he says he is goin to call me back he either forgets or it is hours and hours later. he has a son from a previous relationship and so i understand that when he is looking after him, he is going to be tired, but would it really take that long for him to let me know if he cant make it to see me...? yesterday was our 2 month anniversary and he said he was comin round to see me, but as usul he didnt turn up and called me 12.30am. i dont want to give up and end the reltionship, how can i make him see that even though he may think this is trivial it is important to me...?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2006): At the beginning of a relationship it should be perfect, because everyone is on their best behaviour to impress their partner. If he's letting you down now only two months into the relationship then it's only going to be downhill from here on. Let him go and find someone who really repects you. Don't let him break your heart and batter your self esteem. You are worth far more than that!!
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reader, willywombat +, writes (19 May 2006):
 I think this shows you how low you are on the list of important things in his life. Repeatedly being late is a sign of disrespect. I suggest you end this relationship now, I truely do not believe his behaviour will get any better if you are only 2 months into the relationship anyway.
Be strong.
xxx
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