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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Follow up to previous post: How should I act when he comes home?
Q. hi all. Following my previous post where basically my bf of three months went to india- sister's wedding and his cousin's wedding. Also his parents live there. Even though he had said not to msg as his sisters will be near him etc, i found it ...
A. 27 April 2015: Be glad you only spent 3 months with him. thanks for the update and I'm sorry you are hurting.... (read in full...)
My in-laws are difficult to live with
Q. I've been living with my in laws because of financial reasons. My mother in law put heaps of pressure on us despite being in a bad financial position. I had lost my job and got no redundancy. But she said don't worry about it. Then didn't help. Yet ...
A. 23 January 2015: ok so MONEY is not a problem NOW
now you say she's crossing boundaries.... which boundaries is she crossing in her own home?... (read in full...)
He was in a FWB a few years ago with an older woman. How can I get over my disgust at what he did in the past?
Q. My 27-year-old boyfriend went through a really rough time in his life a few years ago, which led him to make a huge mistake. He let this woman (10-15 years older than him) to throw herself at him and spend money on him just so that she could have ...
A. 22 January 2015: OP based on your follow up i suggest you RUN far and fast.
not only do you have RJ with this guy the entire family (based on your take of the conversation with his mom) has boundary issues.
This will clearly not end well. The family ... (read in full...)
First she flirted a lot. Now she's not replying. What should I do? Try to contact her asap this week, or wait until next week?
Q. I met a great girl at a friends party on Saturday. She just flew in from the other side of the country since she is moving here (I'm in LA) and we both had a ton of common interests. She started up the conversation with me, playfully hit my ...
A. 22 January 2015: don't call and text... unless you text to say "I want to call you and ask you something when is a good time?"
if you call and she does not answer leave a message...
... (read in full...)
He was in a FWB a few years ago with an older woman. How can I get over my disgust at what he did in the past?
Q. My 27-year-old boyfriend went through a really rough time in his life a few years ago, which led him to make a huge mistake. He let this woman (10-15 years older than him) to throw herself at him and spend money on him just so that she could have ...
A. 21 January 2015: "according to my boyfriend"
is there someone else in his family you could get the truth from... all you are getting is his spin on his POV to make him look like "the good guy"
... (read in full...)
Would a memorial tattoo put off a future partner?
Q. Me and my ex mutually agreed that it wasn't working as a couple because we had been friends for over a decade before dating and that felt more like us than the time we'd spent trying to be a couple. After breaking up, we found out she was pregnant ...
A. 21 January 2015: well if all you want to know is if a person will be put off by a tattoo you have then it will be totally dependent on the person.
My current husband would not marry me till I covered a tattoo that i had that represented something and someone ... (read in full...)
Where to Now? And how to stop this jealousy too?
Q. I wrote in a few months ago about an argument between me and my boyfriend. I had gone on his phone as he had been hiding it everytime he got a message which made me doubt what he was upto. I know I shouldn't have but I needed to know as it was ...
A. 21 January 2015: IF he is taking his phone with him everywhere and is not letting you see it, then you not trust him with your past history is justified.
He tried to kiss your BEST friend for goodness sake? and you forgave him that... good for you.
but ... (read in full...)
My in-laws are difficult to live with
Q. I've been living with my in laws because of financial reasons. My mother in law put heaps of pressure on us despite being in a bad financial position. I had lost my job and got no redundancy. But she said don't worry about it. Then didn't help. Yet ...
A. 21 January 2015: how is letting you live in their home NOT helping you out?
what do you do to help out around the house?
are you living with them RENT free? that's more than enough help.
If you can't afford to move out and you are not happy with ... (read in full...)
Now some SWOT analysis makes the new guy appear better than my BF. What should I do?
Q. So....... Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a 4 months. Its not long but it feels like forever to me. Unfortunately recently I have developed feelings for another guy. My sister and i made a list of pros and cons and my boyfriend had so many ...
A. 21 January 2015: I agree that no paper or analysis can compete with the knowledge that you were with the current bf but still managed to find and be attracted to some other man.
this alone says that the current relationship is not a good one.
If you have f... (read in full...)
Is it time to break-up? My Gf is always sad. But now her depression is affecting me
Q. Let me start out by saying my girlfriend is depressed, I believe. And it is staying on me. A little background on me that may be relevant is that I am a 20 year old engineering student. I am a relatively level headed person. Basically on a ...
A. 21 January 2015: IF the only issue is that she is sad all the time, then I suggest you talk to her parents (since she is under 18) about getting her some professional treatment.
Talk to her first about it and make sure she's ok with that but since she is a min... (read in full...)
How do I break up with my boyfriend of five years?
Q. I want to break up with my boyfriend of 5 years but just don't know how to do it. I've been wanting to end it for some time now, but don't know what to say, how to say it, where to say it?? I'm just dreading the whole thing. The thing is we met...
A. 21 January 2015: Be prepared to cry. I remember breaking up with my first boyfriend I had dated him from 15-18 and everyone including our parents felt we were going to get married.
When I broke up with him I very Freudianly said "we have to break OUT" inst... (read in full...)
First she flirted a lot. Now she's not replying. What should I do? Try to contact her asap this week, or wait until next week?
Q. I met a great girl at a friends party on Saturday. She just flew in from the other side of the country since she is moving here (I'm in LA) and we both had a ton of common interests. She started up the conversation with me, playfully hit my ...
A. 21 January 2015: it's possible she has not seen the message.
I would CALL her and ask her out.... (read in full...)
Any advice on how to patiently wait out the engagement period and not rush marriage?
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year now, and we are talking very seriously about marriage (AKA he has picked out a ring and I'm waiting patiently for the one year mark to come for a possible proposal). I am beginning my second ...
A. 21 January 2015: IF you know it's right and you know he's the one then don't wait.
Many folks get married and go to school... there is no reason you have to use SCHOOL as a reason to NOT get married.
I will tell you that what you want at 20 is often not ... (read in full...)
He was in a FWB a few years ago with an older woman. How can I get over my disgust at what he did in the past?
Q. My 27-year-old boyfriend went through a really rough time in his life a few years ago, which led him to make a huge mistake. He let this woman (10-15 years older than him) to throw herself at him and spend money on him just so that she could have ...
A. 21 January 2015: OH WOW. AuntyBimBim makes great points (as usual)
WHAT bugs you, the fact that he had a FWB by choice or the fact that she was "an older woman"
You ASSUME she was "desperate" You make it sound like he was FORCED against his WILL to engage i... (read in full...)
She's 18 and I'm 15. Met online. Never talked on phone. Never met in person. Should I do as we planned or what?
Q. Hello Aunts and uncles! So, I met this girl some time ago (maybe 6-ish months or more) she's 18 and I'm 15. We both have admitted to liking each other, and we've sent pictures of each other (her more than me because it's a bit more difficul...
A. 21 January 2015: My song quotes of the day for you young man include
Aerosmith "Dream On"
and the obscure Kenny Nolan "I like Dreaming (cause dreaming can make you mine)"
I will NOT discourage you from dreaming this dream of meeting her AFTER you tu... (read in full...)
Would a memorial tattoo put off a future partner?
Q. Me and my ex mutually agreed that it wasn't working as a couple because we had been friends for over a decade before dating and that felt more like us than the time we'd spent trying to be a couple. After breaking up, we found out she was pregnant ...
A. 20 January 2015: If my ex wanted the SAME tattoo that's on HIM totally.
I would NOT be involved in his decision or his acquiring said TATTOO.
IF he got the same tattoo that would be on him and not an issue for me but I would NOT in any way shape or form ha... (read in full...)
Would a memorial tattoo put off a future partner?
Q. Me and my ex mutually agreed that it wasn't working as a couple because we had been friends for over a decade before dating and that felt more like us than the time we'd spent trying to be a couple. After breaking up, we found out she was pregnant ...
A. 20 January 2015: I have two children with my ex. they were 3 and 5 when we split up. they are 28 and 30 now...
when we did things together after the divorce we did them FOR THE CHILDREN NOT FOR US.
this tattoo is NOT FOR YOUR CHILD it's for YOU and t... (read in full...)
He has 4 kids by different women! How do I ask him about this? How to continue to love someone with so many children?
Q. Dear cupid. Im 35 years old with no kids and never been married. Just met a guy i love so much, i went into his facebook account just to find out about before i can be serious about our relationship. To my suprise he has 4 kids with different woman ...
A. 20 January 2015: everything we have said and you post twice saying you still need help making the choice... did you make those lists?... (read in full...)
Are we obliged to inform friends when our plans change?
Q. My boyfriend told me that he just wants to be friends, and I agreed. Last week, I told him that I would stop by after my weekly club meeting. He said great, see ya soon. The meeting was longer than I thought, but once it was over I offered to still...
A. 20 January 2015: Well you said you would stop by and you didn't. And you didn't let him know you weren't coming... that's rude and inconsiderate. Would you have done that to your mother or father or a girlfriend?
Sorry I do not care if it's a boyfriend, b... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend out of line in her comments about mental illness?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend 2 and a half years and honestly some of the things she does and says take the absolute biscuit. Yesterday we were speaking about mental illness, I have confided in her before and gotten the same reaction, in my ...
A. 20 January 2015: MOST folks have some issues. I like to say to folks about my marriage that "his broken fits my crazy"
it sounds like her broken does not fit your crazy...
Being mentally ill sucks. and it's NOT a competition but clearly she wants it... (read in full...)
Would a memorial tattoo put off a future partner?
Q. Me and my ex mutually agreed that it wasn't working as a couple because we had been friends for over a decade before dating and that felt more like us than the time we'd spent trying to be a couple. After breaking up, we found out she was pregnant ...
A. 20 January 2015: I had a tattoo on my thigh when I met my husband. It represented my past. I had it covered over with a new tattoo at his request.
I don't like the cover up and while the old tattoo meant something to me the new one just annoys me.
You d... (read in full...)
He has 4 kids by different women! How do I ask him about this? How to continue to love someone with so many children?
Q. Dear cupid. Im 35 years old with no kids and never been married. Just met a guy i love so much, i went into his facebook account just to find out about before i can be serious about our relationship. To my suprise he has 4 kids with different woman ...
A. 20 January 2015: Anyone who has children should disclose that to dates.
IF you have spent enough time with him to fall in love with him (as you say) then you should not need to "stalk him" on facebook, you should already have known of the kids and the baby mom... (read in full...)
My girlfriend misses her friends and family but I don't want her to leave.
Q. I've been with my gf for four years and i love her alot. I'm 31 and she's 26 I met her when she came to my city to see her dad and she decided to stay to be with me which is what i wanted too. We have a difficult relationship - she misses her ...
A. 18 January 2015: wow talk about a double standard.. it's ok to want her to leave her family and friends and home but it's not what you are going to do for her.
LET HER GO HOME... she is clearly depressed and isolating.
4 years without going home is a ... (read in full...)
Ohhhh, my cousin, I think I love your wife!
Q. hi , am someone who have a big problem in his life ...i think i love my cousin wife and she stair att me all the time ...i am really confused when i see her looking at me and iam worried that her husband think a bad idea about us ... i think about ...
A. 18 January 2015: So she looks at you? Maybe you are good looking and she likes to look.
Just because someone is married does not mean they are not allowed to look at pretty or handsome people.
what else gives you the idea that an affair with your cousins... (read in full...)
Why are some people incapable of asking how you are?
Q. why are some people incapable of asking how you are? I mean friends, long term friend, any friend. A long term friend of mine never bothers to say this, I always ask after her and want to know how she is, isnt that what friends do!!? Other friends ...
A. 16 January 2015: your question is about this ONE person?
why does this one person not ask you how you are?
perhaps she does not care?
where is it written that a friend has to be a friend in a particular way?
have you ever asked this friend "why don'... (read in full...)
Is it weird for my husband to lay on his little sister'a lap and stroke her face?
Q. Is it just me, or am I normal in thinking that it is very wrong for my husband who is 27 years old to lie on a sofa with his head in his 10 year old sisters lap and start stroking her face because I personally find it weird. My friends also said it ...
A. 15 January 2015: Normally I am in 100% agreement with YouWish. In this case I am not.
Since we are both very wise aunties, I tend to think that it has to do with how we are raised and what we grow up with.
That kind of behavior between siblings seems w... (read in full...)
What was he thinking looking at Incest pornography?
Q. My fiance and I of 3 years just recently had a baby about 2 weeks ago. I understand men like to read and/or watch porn and I've had this talk with him a few times before because he would sneak off while i was asleep and watch it instead of having ...
A. 15 January 2015: What a person looks at in porn is not necessarily what they would do in real life.
I have been exposed to incest porn (written) and I get the whole thing about why it's "hot" It does not mean he wants to be sexual with his family.
... (read in full...)
Why do women have to be so confusing?
Q. i got this girl we are best friends, so she says but everyone thinks we are dating and im so confused. we got real close when my mom passed just a few months ago,she has a young daughter that i love and she loves me, so she gives me all the signs ...
A. 14 January 2015: Mature adult women who want to date a man do not talk to him about their ex boyfriends.
they do not make him take pictures of her to send to other men.
you are sleeping on her couch...she uses you for baby sitting and whatever else she n... (read in full...)
When is it OK to have sex with your ex?
Q. When is it ok to have sex with your ex? I (25/f) dumped my ex (30/m) 6 weeks ago. He' s recently offered me a plane ticket to see him to catch up, check in on each other, and have a last time go in bed. Initially we were both excited, as I'd already ...
A. 13 January 2015: my best FWB was with an ex boyfriend but 6 weeks is way too soon and the fact that you are questioning it is even more telling.
Until you no longer care if he's around or not... until you don't care if he's alive or dead or if he hurts or not... (read in full...)
Nine years dating and still no marriage!
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 9 years now, he is 42 years old and I am 27. We have been discussing the issue of marriage for quite a long time now. He was married before and has two boys from his previous marriage. One is 21 and the ...
A. 13 January 2015: I fear that come july the new excuse for marriage and kids not working is "I'm paying for Jr's college and can't afford it"
I have never known a man who loved a woman and wanted to marry her to wait more than two years to consumate that part of... (read in full...)
Can a single man genuinely love and accept a woman who has children?
Q. I am in the process of reconsidering my marriage due to a lot of mental abuse. I have told my husband about this. A few months ago I made an acquaintance with a man and he knew I was married and have 2 children. The fact that I have children did not ...
A. 13 January 2015: it is very possible for a man to love a woman and her children with another man.
but I would not jump from the frying pan of a bad marriage into the fire of a new relationship with someone until you have left the marriage and been on your own ... (read in full...)
Her lack of sexual desire has me wondering if I should break up with her.
Q. So Ive been with this girl for over 2 years now and nearly everything is great with her. We moved in together 6 months ago and we still get on really well and I love her very much the problem is her lackof sexual desire. She has admitted she no ...
A. 13 January 2015: if she has always been like this and it's not a change recently due to medication (birth control and anti-depressants can cause a loss of libido) then it's not going to change or get better and in fact it will get worse and worse.
you are n... (read in full...)
He's moved in and we're in love. But after what I found on his phone - could he be cheating?
Q. Hi I have been seeing this guy for10 months he has moved into my home and is sweet and I'm so in love. I found porn on his phone which I don't mind but now I have found this site called f^^k buddy Could he be cheating? I work, he doesn't....
A. 12 January 2015: HE'S NOT WORKING... IS HE contributing to the running of the household financially?
and yeah he looks at porn and that brings viruses and pop ups all the time.... (read in full...)
Went on a date with my online friend, but received mixed messages. Did I offend him?
Q. Dear all. Your views would be welcome. Thanks. I went on an online date on saturday night. I had been talking on the phone to this guy for over a week. He was polite, and interesting. Anyway, we hit it off on the date, but after about 30 minutes h...
A. 12 January 2015: I agree that meeting guys online then meeting in person is a bit more difficult in that many (not all) guys who are online are looking for sex in the guise of a relationship.
I personally am a very touchy feely person and I find his FIRST date b... (read in full...)
Follow up to previous post: How should I act when he comes home?
Q. hi all. Following my previous post where basically my bf of three months went to india- sister's wedding and his cousin's wedding. Also his parents live there. Even though he had said not to msg as his sisters will be near him etc, i found it ...
A. 12 January 2015: he's been gone for 23 days... just over 3 weeks... not a lifetime... (sorry I'm looking at 90 days apart from my husband right now)
and at only 3 months dating it's not a long time so I think that you should
a. wait to hear from him
b. le... (read in full...)
Just found out my long term boyfriend texts a woman from work... and also gives her a lift to work in the morning! should I be ok with this?
Q. So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. He is very loyal and sensitive... In fact I have never known him to really text other women, even though he is a very friendly person. He is very trustworthy, I honestly don't think he would cheat ...
A. 12 January 2015: I am thinking that it's not a big deal.
and maybe he didn't think it was a big deal but it is to you so he has to respect that.
so the best thing to say is "honey I know you didn't think twice about helping out Sally with a lift to work ... (read in full...)
Don't know if I can be life partners with some-one so soft, but I do love him
Q. I don't know how I feel about my boyfriend anymore. Though he is nice and everything any woman can wish for in a way he cares about me, but he has what we say soft bones. We went out yesterday, and the behavour of a server was unspeac...
A. 12 January 2015: What else bugs you about your bf? I ask because it sounds like his behavior is due to lack of self-esteem which could impact on other behaviors and relationships as well.
IF you need/want a man who is going to stand up for you and defend y... (read in full...)
I unfriended his new Gf. Should I call him and question why my ex suddenly blocked me? We were on speaking terms.
Q. Dear Cupids, I was coping ok after finishing with a guy I had a quick fling with and we remained friends on Facebook for a bit. However, I unfriended his current partner for obvious reasons and now he has blocked ME!! - and I can't cope!! I was ...
A. 12 January 2015: There is no bad blood. You unfriended her. He unfriended you.
It's face book. I am sure when you run into each other in person you will all be smiles and pleasant... and that's good enough.
Move on. there is nothing here for you to worr... (read in full...)
When I asked him if he loved me, he replied with "I'd rather not comment." Does he love me or not? How do I know?
Q. So there is this guy who I love deeply (or maybe its infatuation for a whole year). I think he has feelings for me although sometimes am not so sure. Last night while we were chatting, I told him that I loved him and he said "That ain't no secret" ...
A. 9 January 2015: He does not love you. And he knows you love him.
He likes you. He likes you a lot and wants to spend time with you till someone who he loves comes along.
I used to say "I love you" a lot to my partner. Then I got my current husband. ... (read in full...)
My married boyfriend of two years is torn. He cannot give me up but he cannot leave his marriage. How do I handle this?
Q. I have deep feelings for a man who has been married for 20 years. I have been with him for almost 2 years. It happened because I suppose we met at the right place and the right time and we had this undeniable connection... right from the very st...
A. 7 January 2015: i could text you a zillion times in a day... doesn't mean jack honey.
his texts are just his way to keep you on his string.
I did the hardest thing tonight in my life. I "forced" my husband to go to detox and rehab. ONLY his ACTIONS tel... (read in full...)
My married boyfriend of two years is torn. He cannot give me up but he cannot leave his marriage. How do I handle this?
Q. I have deep feelings for a man who has been married for 20 years. I have been with him for almost 2 years. It happened because I suppose we met at the right place and the right time and we had this undeniable connection... right from the very st...
A. 6 January 2015: if you stay you will end up like my aunt. she was some man's little something on the side foe 25 years.
when he died his wife mourned and was publicly comforted.
my aunt mourned alone and never recovered her life.
consider that h... (read in full...)
Do I have a lot to learn or is he trying to take advantage of me?
Q. Hello, So my boyfriend is 7 years older than me and we have been dating for under a year. This is the first time I have dated an older guy. We don't live together and we are only together a few nights out of the week after we both get off for work...
A. 5 January 2015: you have nothing to learn other than how to leave this guy.
you should not be doing his chores even if you are married or living together. He's an adult and he needs to carry his own weight.
as for what you wear at home... wear what you wa... (read in full...)
I want to separate but b/f keeps calling me!
Q. Hi, my problem is my boyfriend. I want to go our separate ways but he keeps calling me and i don`t want to be rude so i answer. The reason i want to spilt is because he gets angry over little things, is controlling and borrows money and never gives ...
A. 2 January 2015: Tell him exactly that. " I am no longer interested in being your girlfriend because you
a. are controlling
b. have anger issues
c. owe me money
if you have told him this then you owe him NOTHING.
tell him that. say it's over
b... (read in full...)
Is my ex capable of being helped before we try to rekindling our relationship?
Q. Dear cupid,I wrote you the other day about rekindling a relationship with my ex but I truly change my mind there is no kind of change in this man he is truly history but he constantly calls me telling me he loves me but his still has his bad habits ...
A. 2 January 2015: you can't help him or fix him.
just go no contact and walk away it's best and easiest in the long run for both of you.... (read in full...)
My ex FWB is my boyfriend's best friend and keeps trying it on with me.
Q. I used to have this "friends with benefits" relationship with a cowoker. We are still close friends, but stopped with the sex. I am now dating this guy's best friend. I love him and he is the most amazing thing that has ever happened to me. We're ...
A. 2 January 2015: NO you NEED to tell your boyfriend his "friend" is doing this and hitting on you and NOT respecting HIS friend, you or your relationship.
I have a friend who is married to a guy she met through mutual friends. THE wife of his best friend is ho... (read in full...)
15 year old dating and sneaking around to see 19 year old.
Q. okay so i recently started dating this guy and he is 19 and im 15.(we have been friends for a couple of months too) which is only 4 years but i really do like him and im currently still a virgin. but everyone is telling me to sneak around and stuff ...
A. 2 January 2015: I'm sorry but 15 is way different than 19 and sneaking around and lying are no ways to have a relationship.
Best way for this boy to let your parents know he's on the up and up is for him to start spending time with you and your parents in their... (read in full...)
Is my former FWB guy genuine about wanting to be friends?
Q. I'd like some advice because I'm so confused. I used to be sort of fwb (hate that saying) with someone, which I regret now. He's now married but we still talk. He told me he wants to be friends but he's changed constantly flirting and whe...
A. 2 January 2015: he's married
he tried to kiss you
are you friends with his wife?
does his wife know about you?
he's not a friend... he's looking to see what he can get.
want to prove it... invite him over for dinner WITH HIS WIFE and see what happen... (read in full...)
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