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male
age
36-40,
*ildave84
writes:i got this girl we are best friends, so she says but everyone thinks we are dating and im so confused. we got real close when my mom passed just a few months ago,she has a young daughter that i love and she loves me, so she gives me all the signs that i can be more even says it sometimes but also says im not her type i basically live with her i sleep on her couch she is always showing me her tits, butt, and puss. she always has me taking nude photos of her or sending them to me when im out of town working.shes made me meet her dad and her mom lives in another state but she talks to her about me alot her mom said so but sometimes i wonder is she useing me, or we going to be just friends forever? she always tells me about her ex boyfriends and just things friends dont tell friends.. when im in town not working she leaves her daughter with me when she works im just so confused why do women have to be so confusing sometimes?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2015): Pack your things and leave evidently you are not the one for her
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (14 January 2015):
 She sounds like a new special breed - desperately craving approval on her body through men. She sounds insecure and jn need of attention. Don't let her use you, man. You have got to be clear that if she's going to be showing you her goods and treating you like to father to her child, then she needs to be committed to you and respect you with a full relationship.
She may be using you for free child care and paying you will sexuality so she doesn't feel she's taking advantage of you. You deserve more. If you like this arrangement then enjoy, but if it's not satisfying to you, then you absolutely do not have to accept it. This is not normal behavior. This is not something that stable, mature, independent women do.
~SY
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2015): Have you told her how you feel about her? Have you tried touching her when she exposes herself to you? Have you replied to her nude photos telling her what you'd like to do to her? Have you asked her out for a date?
You are just as confusing as she is.
Do any or all of the above and you will have your answer.
Personally, I think if she really wanted you to be a couple you'd be sleeping in her bedroom not on her couch.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (14 January 2015):
 Mature adult women who want to date a man do not talk to him about their ex boyfriends.
they do not make him take pictures of her to send to other men.
you are sleeping on her couch...she uses you for baby sitting and whatever else she needs.
what is confusing exactly?
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (14 January 2015):
Women are as confusing as a man...and that word MAN is what she is looking for. She has literally thrown herself at you, and what do you do?
She wants a MAN who she can depend on to take control of the situation. A man who she knows will look after her needs as well as her daughter's. She sees you as a good man, but act like a young boy, confused as to what to do next.
If a woman goes that far as to show you her whole body, let you take nude photos of her, send you nude photos when you are away...What is confusing about that??
She is serving herself up on a silver platter, and you are like "should I eat or not".
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