He and I are quite close. Do you think he's telling me he's leaving his wife?
Q. Married man at work rang my mobile whilst I was at work an he at home; I didn't know he had my number, He was very drunk and told me he needed to hear my voice and he missed me then told me he needed to tell me something. So I asked what? He sai...
A. 11 March 2013: Right... and it was important that he tell YOU first, about him and his wifey splitting up.... Doesn't that sound even a LITTLE BIT suspicious to you?????? AND, you and he will be/become "friends"... as you insist.... If every fling that start... (read in full...)
He and I are quite close. Do you think he's telling me he's leaving his wife?
Q. Married man at work rang my mobile whilst I was at work an he at home; I didn't know he had my number, He was very drunk and told me he needed to hear my voice and he missed me then told me he needed to tell me something. So I asked what? He sai...
A. 11 March 2013: It's Monday. What happened?... (read in full...)
I'm not interested in dating a man who has had meaningless sex?
Q. Hi I have a question, basically it is this what are the chances of finding a man who has only had sex exclusively in relationships? I'm not keen on the idea of being with a man who had sex with people without emotions attached. I am also not keen ...
A. 11 March 2013: You write: "I have only ever had sex with people I am dating or in a relationship with. I am the OP btw."
So..... your question is strictly rhetorical, isn't it? ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend gives me orders not to do something but its ok if she does it?
Q. ive been living with my girlfriend and her 2 kids for over a year. we lived in part of town moved to another part when we moved she changed. i do the dishs my own laundry sweep and mop the kitchen/dinning room floor. the appartment owner has a ...
A. 11 March 2013: Please get to a local community college and learn how to write a decipherable sentence.... then come on this site and re-submit this ... so that those of us who are literate can understand what you are trying to say!!!
Good luck...... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has been treating me differently ever since I told her that I wear a wig
Q. Hi, I'm a very good looking guy,I'm the lead guitarist for the university,I also play for the college football ..don't juge I'm saying this because I have a secret which will make people think I'm fakee.. I always got the women I wanted and now I...
A. 11 March 2013: IF your "Girlfriend" reacts so negatively to your condition...... then she isn't much of a "friend", is she?????
Don't apologize for who you are.... with all your foibles and shortcomings... and don't "settle" for a girl who will like you only if ... (read in full...)
Do you have to look like a porn star to get your boyfriend to masturbate over you?
Q. I've heard some men masturbate over their own girlfriends. Some don't. Do you have to look like a pornstar and be really hot before your boyfriend will masturbate to thoughts of you instead of porn?...
A. 11 March 2013: Heck, I used to masturbate over my Carl Yastrezmski baseball card!!!! It doesn't take much to set off a young, horny guy!!!!!
Good luck...... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend protective or is controlling?
Q. Recently, if I have been going to my friends house ( once , actually recently) my boyfriend would be like ' are you home yet? When you coming home? Please come Home' when it would be around 11 ish or so on a school night. I am 18, boyfriend 20. Last ...
A. 11 March 2013: Controlling boyfriend = sell your soul, if you want to continue hanging out with him... Your call....
Good luck..... (read in full...)
I'm not interested in dating a man who has had meaningless sex?
Q. Hi I have a question, basically it is this what are the chances of finding a man who has only had sex exclusively in relationships? I'm not keen on the idea of being with a man who had sex with people without emotions attached. I am also not keen ...
A. 10 March 2013: It would take you HOURS to read my entire treatise which justifies and validates us guys for our meaningless sex-capades...... so here's the "Reader's Digest" version:
Guys like to put their weenies someplace warm, soft and wet.... Women (all of ... (read in full...)
Team working and negotiation skills versus getting things exactly how I think is best. Should I just force myself to like they way they like to do the report?
Q. I have a college course that requires me to write several reports on laboratory activities. I ended up in a lab group with two of my friends, which I get along with perfectly fine. However, I've always had trouble working in groups. I hav...
A. 10 March 2013: Pick your battles carefully. Compromise if and as you must to get enough concurrance to get the darn thing completed. Turn it in to whoever grades/rates it....
IF your observations are "correct" (in keeping with what the grader would like to ... (read in full...)
Am I just a fall-back option for her? Now that she's broken up with her Bf?
Q. Hello, here's my problem: There's a girl I really like, one day she starts texting a lot with me, she wants me to skype with her (something we've never done that often before). She is texting me almost at any time of the day. Three days later...
A. 10 March 2013: 1. Yes.... you are a "fall back"....
2. She has an itch between her knees, and needs someone - like you - to scratch it.... Have at it... but DON'T be sucked in to believing that it means anything more than a good/fun scratching....
Good lu... (read in full...)
He and I are quite close. Do you think he's telling me he's leaving his wife?
Q. Married man at work rang my mobile whilst I was at work an he at home; I didn't know he had my number, He was very drunk and told me he needed to hear my voice and he missed me then told me he needed to tell me something. So I asked what? He sai...
A. 10 March 2013: You can keep your hopes up until you and he speak on Monday.... and then you will learn some few things from amongst these:
1. He gets drunk and does stupid things (Like, call you),
2. He is dumb enough to try to tempt you with some sort o... (read in full...)
Did I give the impression that I was just too Easy?
Q. Did I come off as easy? I went over to the house of a guy I like and gave him oral (I was on my period) after he started making out with me. We never had any proper dates, but we had been flirting over the past couple of weeks and we hung out a fe...
A. 9 March 2013: I trust that you have now learned the lesson that guys will do most anything to get nik-nik (or an oral equivalent thereto) from a girl...... and following that, will feel NO COMPUNCTION about having much/anything to do with her, again, until the ... (read in full...)
Why does he continue interact with and spend time with the children of his ex, even although he knows it bothers me?
Q. My husband continues to interact with his ex's children, even although the children are not his! I've asked him numerous times if he let go of the ex or still has feelings. Why do you think he continues to spend time with them although he know...
A. 9 March 2013: Cripes..... he ACTS LIKE a bona-fide "step father" and you want to begrudge him this????????
HOW long was he "stepDad" to them????? Are they close? Is the ex- inticately interwoved in HIS dealings with HER kids????
How many men SPAWN THEIR ... (read in full...)
Sixteen years together, eleven years married. Is he not being thoughtful and considerate enough to me?
Q. I've been married for eleven years, together for sixteen years. We recently celebrated our anniversary which is also St Valentines day.. I never ask for anything. This This year I suggested a Northface jacket. I've not had a new coat in a good six...
A. 9 March 2013: You're not being selfish.... YOu simply married a lout. What is the question??????
Good luck........ (read in full...)
My fiance no longer likes to drink and party with me?
Q. My fiance and I have been together for a year now. We recently had another deep discussion that lead to him revealing problems he had with me. One of the problems that I can't understand is the fact that he told me that he doesn't have fun drinking ...
A. 9 March 2013: I believe that - as long as you superimpose alcohol over/upon the goings-on that lead to this question - you are ALWAYS going to have this question.....
Why don't you and he go "on the wagon" for about 6 weeks, and see if you really like/can... (read in full...)
Should I just shut up about these women in my boyfriend's life?
Q. I've been seeing my boyfriend for 5 months and we have so much fun together, we're very similar and like all the same things, I think he's great. But the problem is other people do too. His ex girlfriend post pictures of him on facebook, he wears ...
A. 9 March 2013: Rather than seek the answers to the questions that you've posed herein.... I'd spend all my time dumping his sorry/indecisive bottom.... and find a REAL "boyfriend"...
Good luck....... (read in full...)
She is my brother's Girlfriend. So can I believe the comment I heard, that she might be interested in me?
Q. Ok well let me get started with this thought because it's driving me crazy thinking about her, because I thank I'm falling in love with her, but she has a bf. Tonight was weird, so we had dinner with the family, and she gave me two hugs, one when...
A. 9 March 2013: She's YOUR BROTHER'S GIRLFRIEND!!!!! Just how much of a DOG (apologies to canines, everywhere....) do you intend to be???????
I'm reluctant to offer.... but... Good luck...... (read in full...)
Is 2 years a long time to go without sex?
Q. I'm 25 years old and have been single for 2 years after the end of a 6 year relationship. Being single is fine, infact it's great but I haven't had sex in the last 2 years either and Im worried that my anxiety over this may prevent me from seeing ...
A. 9 March 2013: Two years is about 100 weeks too long to go without sex.....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
What are the sexual needs of men and women???
Q. hi all, ok so i was going to write a long post about the issues between me and my partner but instead first i would like to hear some view points on sex and i would like if possible equal input from men and women, women... how important is it to ...
A. 9 March 2013: This submittal ALMOST got me to submit one of my protracted diatribes (boring reading.... I assure you) .... HOWEVER, I came to my senses (before I composed it).... and decided that THIS is plenty to say about the matter:
IF/when two people a... (read in full...)
Sent him an email ending things hoping for a bit of resistance but he accepted it. I am so sad, what do I do now?
Q. Hello I have been involved in a 3 1/2 year relationship. My bf likes to flirt a lot, he is in his mid 40s and in my opinion weak willed. We also work together in the same building and recently on the same floor for a period of time. In this time i...
A. 9 March 2013: I interpret this that YOU offered up the break-up, and HE accepted.... There's not much more than that, in your submittal.....
YOUR lesson, here: Don't make a threat if you can't live with the outcome.
NOW, take a deep breath, puff out... (read in full...)
Does this woman really want to be with me?
Q. Ok, so here's the deal. It's very difficult for me to write about this, but I am in desperate need of some impartial view of the whole situation. I've been seeing this girl for the last five months, almost on a daily basis. Every time we are toge...
A. 9 March 2013: Here you are.... "boyfriend" to a girl who already HAS a "boyfriend." Not a great situation to be in. Consider that.... if you and she DO, eventually, become "B/F-G/F" then you know that she doesn't take that situation - with its "baggage" of ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seems willing to jeopardize our future to play counsellor to his ex wife
Q. My boyfriend of 3 years divorced 8 years ago. The ex wife remarried and now is fighting with the current husband, her third, and it looks like divorce again. She is phoning my boyfriend up and telling him all the detail and crying on his shou...
A. 9 March 2013: The best - and most important - sentence in your submittal is this one: "So I'm really fed up and I think I should leave him. "..... because, right there, you have all the answer you need.....
Good luck...... (read in full...)
Dating a gynecologist is bothering me!
Q. I've met this guy recently through friends I like him very much. We've been on couple of dates but my problem is that he is a gynecologist! I can't seem to see through that. I cannot imagine what that is like for a young man. It bothers me to think...
A. 8 March 2013: I think you may have to drop this guy as a prospect, if you find this concernworthy....
I have to tell you that I have a set of scrubs that I wear occasionally.... and on the top, where the name and department is displayed, I've painted on (fabr... (read in full...)
My bf of 3 years said that he doesn't see us as a couple and he just wants to have fun until he meets "the one"!
Q. Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years never talks about our future together, whenever i brought it up, he chnages the topic or says future is never certain. Yesterday i made him talk about our future, now he says he doesnt see us as a couple and he ju...
A. 8 March 2013: So he's told you that he likes you as a place-holder and a sex partner, and wants to keep that as your "status" until he finds some girl who he will like better, and will want to make HER his NEW P-H and S/P? Delightful guy you've got there..... ... (read in full...)
I overhear people saying 'why is she with him' because I'm just an average guy whereas she is beautiful inside and out, should I ask my girlfriend what she saw in me?
Q. I have been dating this beautiful girl for abt a year now!she's nice,kinda,a well educated woman she's working at a hospital..she's beautiful not only on the outside but also the inside and that's what attracted me to her! But the only thing that ...
A. 8 March 2013: Say not a word to your lovely G/F......
When and/or if you hear - or are made aware of - those comments that you mention in your submittal.... make a knowing little smile with your mouth... and think to yourself - about them (the commente... (read in full...)
I've been cheated on before so now I worry about it happening in this relationship
Q. I started dating this guy a few weeks ago he has stayed the night with me almost every day the only time he goes home is when he has to work or go to church we live in different cities. I have had a terrible past with relationships of getting ...
A. 6 March 2013: While I'm not a cynical as "Tranced" relative to the success that you might have in this relationship... I can't help but note that you have jumped in to a very close and intimate relationship very quickly (living together after just a few ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling like I've lost the love of my life after the break up. Is this normal?
Q. So..I'm really sad over my recent break up. He broke up with me and I can honestly say I was in love with him. Towards the end of our relationship I could tell things weren't right so when he finally broke up with me I wasn't surprised. Things just ...
A. 6 March 2013: Didja ever go to the beach and "write" something in the sand... and then watch as waves and/or tide came up and obliterated it? Heck, Pat Boone made a fortune singing about just that (see, "Love Letters in the Sand")...
Now, imagine that your tho... (read in full...)
The medication I'm taking is ruining our sex life!
Q. I had a really debilitating phobia for awhile and after only barely managing to get it under control with therapy, turned to medication. My medication is great, I feel SO much better now! My outlook on life has completely changed and it's just ...
A. 6 March 2013: Get your a*s back to whoever prescribed the medication that you are taking... and bring a copy of this submittal... and say to him or her: "Wuzzup wit dis?!?"
..... and expect that there will be/ may be a little time necessary to find the corr... (read in full...)
Boyfriend brought up a boy's night out and I wasn't thrilled. We never talked it all out, do I bring it up again?
Q. my boyfriend and i are in our almost late twenties and have been dating for about 6 months..everything is going great and it's the best relationship i have been in. We both truly love each other and he treats me very well and vice versa.I can ...
A. 6 March 2013: Your description of the relationship you have with this guy is very nice.... and I detect that you and he enjoy being with one-another, a lot!!!
However, I'm surprised that you and he don't/won't take an occasional weekend "off" ... specific... (read in full...)
Old fashioned parents will not be thrilled to meet my boyfriend. How do I tell him?
Q. How do i explain to my parents that my boyfriend is half black? I'm from a very strict Russian family,and my parents are very old fashioned. We are not racist at all, it just my parents arent very good with changes. Church every sunday, and nothing ...
A. 6 March 2013: Isn't it sort of ironic that you can have such truth and such untruth in the same sentence?
" We are not racist at all, it just my parents arent very good with changes."
Truth: Your parents really AREN'T very good with changes.
Untr... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is always staring at girls and when I complain he says I'm paraoid!
Q. My boyfriend recently went drinking with friends and came home with pictures of him dancing with girls (dirty dancing). And he claimed he brought them for me coz i did something which made him upset, though he couldnt disclose what. Yesterda...
A. 6 March 2013: Sure you're being paranoid. And he'll tell you so, again, when you find that he's communicating with her on an Internet site.... and, again, when he makes arrangements to "just meet her"....and, again, when he comes home after he has had s-x with ... (read in full...)
Being with a selfish man in bed makes me feel like an unpaid prostitute! Anyone else feel this way?
Q. I've been seeing this guy a few times, and I think he's nice. He took me out for dinner once and coffee a couple of times. After our coffee date yesterday, we made out a bit in his car before he dropped me home. I saw him again tonight and he did ...
A. 6 March 2013: He wanted to get in to CANADA??????
Don't they have hockey and maple syrup where we was from????... (read in full...)
Being with a selfish man in bed makes me feel like an unpaid prostitute! Anyone else feel this way?
Q. I've been seeing this guy a few times, and I think he's nice. He took me out for dinner once and coffee a couple of times. After our coffee date yesterday, we made out a bit in his car before he dropped me home. I saw him again tonight and he did ...
A. 6 March 2013: Some further thoughts to this submittal and the subsequent discussion:
1. Many/most guys are quite content to have a "sex-al" relationship, with no other content, expectation(s) or obligations.... FWB and F-buddies fit in to this category... (read in full...)
New baby last year. So how can I convince my husband that I need less visitors at home?
Q. Dear cupid, I am at the end of my tether with visitors in my house! I had a baby last year and since then I have never had any peace. I'm feeling overwhelmed by too many people always around here. I feel like my home isn't my own and I am running ...
A. 6 March 2013: Great hubby you've got there..... It "sounds" like he is operating an entertainment venue for his friends, and YOU are the poor sap who he's hired to do an impossible job... a job from which you get no reward or relief.... AND - just to drive the ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend won't have sex with me and now won't see me!
Q. I'm 26 plus n my girl friend is 22plus we 've dating getting to 4 years now,each time she pays me visit she refuse me to touch her breast,boob,kiss she prefer hug. The last time she visited me i tried all i could to get her to have sex wit me s...
A. 5 March 2013: She may love you.... but it's certain that she ISN'T going to put out for you... Decide if you're content to wait until she's ready to do so (put out).... or, if you'd prefer to hang with a girl who is a little looser in the
$-x department. Your... (read in full...)
How much fighting is normal between parents?
Q. My parents fight about 4 times a week. Two out of those four times will involve yelling/ insults. Is this normal? My parents are both great people. However, my dad treats my mom like a child and makes decisions without her. They don't understand...
A. 4 March 2013: None is ideal..... Any more than "once in a blue moon" is too much....
Try not to let childish behaviour on their parts have negative impact on your life....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
As the "other" woman in the affair, how to deal with his revengeful wife
Q. I am in a weird situation and need your advice. I (happily married and want to stay in that marriage) had an affair a couple of years ago with another married man, whose wife found out. Their relationship is going down the drain and he told me ...
A. 4 March 2013: Plan for the worst.... and content yourself that you "dodged the bullet" if it doesn't come to pass...
SHE has the "high road" available to her... since YOU are the one who reneged on your's and her hubby's vows of fidelity.....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
She wants a nick name but I'm not sure which one to use?
Q. Hello i,m a male aged 51 and going on a date soon, the woman calls me hun ( short for honey i presume ) she said , she wants me to call her something nice, i,ve got a list of nice nicknames to call her, but not sure which one to use in ...
A. 4 March 2013: REgardless of what name you DO choose to call this lovely creature..... keep this in the back of your mind, in case you need a "fall-back" endearing nickname: "Hunchy-bunchy"
It will work... I GUARANTEE IT!!!!!
Good luck....... (read in full...)
Is he just using a line to finish things?
Q. I have been seeing someone very casually for a month, I was not looking for a relationship when we first met (coming out of a bad breakup) so suggested not getting too involved which he was ok with. We have slept together a few times but now he says ...
A. 4 March 2013: Sorry to burst your bubble... BUT,... once a guy has "experienced" a woman (had $-x) then he is prepared to move on to his next conquest.... and the one he leaves behind (you!) gets to ask questions like you have posted, herein...
Think about th... (read in full...)
My fiance masturbates every morning and I just found out. What should I do?
Q. we don't have sex alot, and i would like to but he always says no. but this morning i walked in on him masturbating and saw he does it every morning. He says he loves it when we have sex, but yet he still does this every morning... im really hurt ...
A. 3 March 2013:
The reason why guys like to masturbate is because, when we masturbate, we don't have to worry about whether or not we have met our G/F's lofty standards... and we don't have to worry about whether or not we are as good as her LAST lover... and we d... (read in full...)
Should I settle down with my boyfriend even though I am not physically attracted to him?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. He loves me a lot and wants to be with me forever. I'm not sure if i want to stay with him though. His character is great, loving, caring, clever, honest etc but i don't feel that sexually attra...
A. 3 March 2013: You write: ".... So should i settle down with him and spend my life with him? "
The key word in this is "settle"...... "Settle" means that you will compromise what you REALLY want... and will take the best that seems to be available at the time... (read in full...)
Is my husband's honesty admirable or despicable?
Q. My husband told me that he loves me, but he's not attracted to my body, anymore. He said he just wants to be honest with me. He really isn't trying to be mean, and he's not saying it in a demeaning way. Specifically, he wants me to tone my body....
A. 2 March 2013: I love this guy with his "honesty".... because it really tells us what is his agenda for YOU!!!!
HE is a muscle-guy and gym rat, and THAT is what he thinks "life" is all about... (What other activities/ socializing/entertainment do you and he s... (read in full...)
My married crush says he's divorcing his wife for me. Should I leave my fiance or wait and see what happens?
Q. I have had a crush on this guy since I was 8 years old (I just turned 36) A couple of years ago we reconnected and started conversating early on I admitted to him the crush I still have on him. We started chatting for hours a day sharing everything ...
A. 1 March 2013: You write: "I don't know if I should just break it off with my fiance now or wait to see how things go with the crush and then decide then?"
I think dilemmas like this are so interesting, because what you are really saying is: "I THINK I want t... (read in full...)
If I'm not good enough for my girlfriend then why didn't she just let us stay broken up?
Q. I found out my girl of 2 years was talking sexual to guys from dating sites. It caused us to break up and she begged me to go back to her. She admitted it was stupid and said it was not for sexual reasons, but teasing and flirting with them just for ...
A. 1 March 2013: You ask (me/us): "What is going on?"
I ask you: What difference does it make? This girl really has not exhibited much real interest in you... so you're better off leaving her by herself and getting on with your OWN life....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
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