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30 October 2010: I have tried to keep my relationship problems away from this site as I do not want my advice to be assosiated to my own questions. However I have now learned an important lesson that I want to share with the rest of you, in the hopes that you will ...
What I've learned from my family.
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How one person changed my life
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8 June 2010: I've been an aunt on this site now for quite a while, at first I started as an anonymous, until I finally took the step to make an account and dare to be identified somewhat. As I've gotten to know a few people on here, albeit still strangers ...
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Is my friend looking for a certain answer about our mutual friend?
Q. my friend has been making weird references about me and our mutual friend, and I'm a little confused by his behavior. yesterday he suddenly brought this up: him: You still like ____ huh me: ____? what about _____? him: You still like him? ...
A. 23 March 2014: OP, that's how insecure guys show a girl they like her... they avoid her. Because they worry they will have an erection if they get too close. Or, they worry she will notice his affection and laugh at him. So, they stay away. It's very typical. He ... (read in full...)
Is my friend looking for a certain answer about our mutual friend?
Q. my friend has been making weird references about me and our mutual friend, and I'm a little confused by his behavior. yesterday he suddenly brought this up: him: You still like ____ huh me: ____? what about _____? him: You still like him? ...
A. 21 March 2014: Oh, I thought you probably did not like A as more than a friend. Well, then do as Ciar said. Do not tell B you wouldnt mind a date. This is something you need to talk to A about, and not involve other people in. ... (read in full...)
I masturbate to photos of girls I know. What do I say if they find out?
Q. I am a 16 year old guy. I am constantly on social networking. I've many a time found myself looking at my friend's who are girls pictures. I have a tendency to masturbate to people I know and I never feel guilty about it. Is this wrong? Does this ...
A. 20 March 2014: You're normal, you're not doing anything wrong, and they wont find out as long as you make sure not to tell anyone you do this, and only do it when you are absolutely sure you are alone.
We all use our imagination and it's not at all uncommon... (read in full...)
Is my friend looking for a certain answer about our mutual friend?
Q. my friend has been making weird references about me and our mutual friend, and I'm a little confused by his behavior. yesterday he suddenly brought this up: him: You still like ____ huh me: ____? what about _____? him: You still like him? ...
A. 20 March 2014: This mutual friend of yours (lets call him A) has a crush on you, and the other friend (lets call him B) is trying to fish out of you whether A has a shot with you or not.
Be firm next time you answer these questions. Do you like A as a friend o... (read in full...)
How can I succeed at dating? Because I have decided to try dating, instead of visiting an escort.
Q. Some weeks ago I posted about seeing an escort as a way to experience intimacy, but several women have replied to my post. I have thought about what they said realize seeing a escort won't fix anything. Today I decide at end of my class to just to ...
A. 20 March 2014: Avoid the entire dilemma by not asking her out on a date. As of yet, you haven't gotten the grip of talking to people randomly, so do not jump ahead of yourself and start wondering what to do in so and so long time from now.
It's really pointles... (read in full...)
How can I succeed at dating? Because I have decided to try dating, instead of visiting an escort.
Q. Some weeks ago I posted about seeing an escort as a way to experience intimacy, but several women have replied to my post. I have thought about what they said realize seeing a escort won't fix anything. Today I decide at end of my class to just to ...
A. 20 March 2014: You analyze and assume way too much. You assume women are identical and every woman thinks the same and feels the same and it somehow must be something negative about you.
It's getting old. You don't know what women think because you're not a mi... (read in full...)
We can't have sex unless we are in a certain position. Is it the height difference?
Q. Hi, I have started having sex w a new guy. He's 6'5" and I'm 5'5". For some reason he can't ever get his dick inside me unless I pull my legs up. Why is that? Is it because of the height differential? I don't get it! ...
A. 20 March 2014: What does his penis look like/how big is it? That's probably the reason why he can only enter in one position, it has to do with his penis being the way it is. Alternatively, if he is over weight, his belly could be getting in the way. ... (read in full...)
Isn't it better to have loved and lost then to have never have loved at all?
Q. I met this girl while I was traveling in Thailand where I ended up saving her life, 3 months later she leaves Canada and comes to Australia for a year working/traveling. Everything was going great for the first few days then when we talking about...
A. 20 March 2014: For you it is better to have loved and lost. But I think she's already experienced love, and having lost it. She's already done it, and has no need to put herself though that type of pain again. Even if you mean well, you must also respect that she ... (read in full...)
Her male best friend is making me feel uncomfortable
Q. My girlfriend has a male best friend, they have been friends for years, he has a romantic interest in her, however she said she was very clear with him about she wants to be with me and not with him. They go out together for lunch, to the movies and ...
A. 19 March 2014: I don't think it is appropriate either, because it isn't a friendship when one of the two wants more. It simply is not a friendship any longer, it is unrequited love from the one part, and really, the other part is just taking advantage/leading it ... (read in full...)
I bought concert tickets in a price range I could afford but am feeling guilty now that my girlfriend wants to pay for an upgrade herself!
Q. I bought concert tickets for my gf's favorite band to surprise her, but since I'm a student, and work, money is tight for me. I could only afford the cheaper, non great seats. I wish I could afford the best seats, but they were well out of my price ...
A. 18 March 2014: I think you are over-reacting. She likes the tickets, so the gift is a success, and she is in no way forced to spend more money. If she, however, WANTS to spend more money, I don't see why she shouldn't. It's her birthday, she should be allowed to ... (read in full...)
Am I crossing the line? Why do I feel that I say inappropriate things in class?
Q. I need opinion whether I say inappropriate things all the time. I have this group of people in one of my language classes. A teacher is a woman in her late 40s, then few guys about the same age and few younger men and women but not by much. ...
A. 18 March 2014: I think you probably say a bit too much for this crowd. If you were with good friends I wouldn't think it weird at all to say these things, but it's people you don't know, and they're obviously not used to this much personal information. You share ... (read in full...)
Seventeen and never been kissed -- what am I doing wrong?
Q. Im 17 and ive never had a boyfriend. What am I doing wrong? I like guys but they never seem to like me back I've been friendzoned about 9 times this year. Im not very pretty, and Im a little overweight, but I think im nice. I cant understand why Im ...
A. 17 March 2014: It is quite normal to be 17 and not having been kissed. So no, youre not doing anything wrong. You are just being impatient. ... (read in full...)
I'm good friends with both of them... do I tell her he cheated?
Q. Hi, my name is Danny and I have this best friend called Charlie (girl). Me and Charlie have been friends for-EVER! She is the closest thing I have to a sister, as i'm an only child. I have this band and i'm the lead, so I write songs and m...
A. 16 March 2014: Charlie. Shes your closest friend, so close shes like family. Besides, Adam cheated, which makes him the bad guy and not someone you want to be friends with.
But dont expect gratitude when you tell Charlie. She might not believe you, or she migh... (read in full...)
My friends don't believe I'm fine with being single!
Q. I have a large group of friends and they're all in relationships apart from me. I am alright with being single, it doesn't matter to me. I tell them I am fine with being single but none of them believe me and try and set me up with the worst guys ...
A. 16 March 2014: The trick to solve this is to take one of these friends aside and talk to her in private. Make it dead serious by starting the conversation with "there's something I really need to tell you, and it's something that really troubles me". This will ... (read in full...)
Would a blood test tell if she were still pregnant?
Q. this is a kind of medical question so i only really want to know if its possible. so basically in early January my sister told me she had just miscarried at 3 and half months. however since then she has yet to get her period. she also has gained ...
A. 16 March 2014: She needs to go see her doctor. I am quite surprised and amazed that she hasn't seen her doctor about this at any point. Is it difficult to see a doctor where you live? Do they cost too much? Is there something preventing her from seeing her doctor? ... (read in full...)
Old me vs new me. He loves how I used to look. Should I stay with him, now that he's so critical?
Q. I have had a boyfriend since highschool six almost seven years. We have a daughter together, and in the first 5 years of our relationship I was in shape and fit and he was chunky. Now the tables have turned and he is the one in shape and im the ...
A. 16 March 2014: I have written this thinking there is something to what your boyfriend says about being concerned about your health. Just a few extra kilo's don't make anyone concerned. But if you have become overweight there IS reason to be concerned, and you ... (read in full...)
Would a blood test tell if she were still pregnant?
Q. this is a kind of medical question so i only really want to know if its possible. so basically in early January my sister told me she had just miscarried at 3 and half months. however since then she has yet to get her period. she also has gained ...
A. 16 March 2014: If she had a miscarriage how can you be unsure if she's still pregnant or not? When she had a miscarriage and the fetus came out of her body, did she not go see her doctor? What exactly did she do, flush it down the toilet and then went on about her ... (read in full...)
My husband wont discuss our problems because I might get upset!
Q. I have been thinking about leaving my husband. I was on a business trip recently and enjoyed my time away, however, I missed my husband. It has been a few days since my return and already I can't stand being back. He is unbearable to be around. He ...
A. 16 March 2014: You have your own job, so how is it that he controls your finances? Get things straight, get control over the finances yourself.
To me, what this sounds like, is that he has an addiction he doesn't tell you about. You don't mention what he does ... (read in full...)
It could be crazy coincidence, but then .........
Q. This has happened twice and now I'm curious if it's just coincidence or something more? I met two girls on two separate occasions through two separate mutual friends at group get-togethers. (I have different sets of friends, like old school frien...
A. 16 March 2014: I don't think it has anything to do with your boyfriend, but just that the times coincided. The time came where you were comfortable enough to bring your boyfriend, and at this time they were also comfortable enough to ask to hang out outside of the ... (read in full...)
Have any women on here gone to a bar alone?
Q. I have been on my own for a long time now. It has been bothering me for a while but it has only become a problem recently. I don't have particularly great coping skills and feelings of loneliness have become overwhelming. I really need to make some ...
A. 16 March 2014: Whether or not it is safe to go to a bar alone depends on your area and the bars etc. Any place can be dangerous, sure, there can always be some crazy person with a gun anywhere in the world. But if that's what you're scared of, I can assure you, it ... (read in full...)
I feel like my dreams are dying ...
Q. I'm 29... finding myself and becoming skilled at something... discovering my talent or passion... if it was going to happen, it would have happened by now? I feel like my dreams are dying, because I don't have any special talent or quality to de...
A. 16 March 2014: Learn to surf then. What's stopping you? You really think you're age is relevant? So 29 year olds can't learn anything? How depressive. You ARE passionate about things, you're just telling yourself you're no good at it, so you should stop doin... (read in full...)
Should I cut my losses now? My new Bf can't stop oggling women and commenting on them.
Q. I am 38 years old and look after myself and have good self esteem. I have been dating a man the same age for a month. I am finding that whenever we are out he quickly notices an attractive woman and either turns his head when we walk past or ...
A. 16 March 2014: This has nothing to do with "being visual", whatever that means. It's poor manners, nothing else. I also have eyes, no in that respect I am also "visual". I can see if another person is hot or not. And, as a bisexual woman, I have plenty attractive ... (read in full...)
Why hasn't a girl wanted to date me yet?
Q. Is it wrong to ask/wonder when, how, if I'll ever meet a girl who wants to get to know me, date, hold hands, etc...? It's coming up to my birthday and I've just been thinking more about it since summer is right around the corner and it would be nice ...
A. 11 March 2014: In order to answer your question, I need to know this: how many women have you asked to be your girlfriend?
It's a matter of math, you have to ask this and that many before someone says yes. So, if you want to know how long it will take, I first ... (read in full...)
Should my friend's fiance pay rent or not?
Q. Ok so my friend and i are thinking of moving in together. Her fiance stays over 5-6 dys a week. I think its fair that he contrubutes to sum of the bills but she says no. She says firstly there is no way in hell he will pay as he dont earn that much ...
A. 11 March 2014: He doesnt pay rent, and you have no right to demand it either. Really. Once you start living on your own you will get this pretty fast. What, would you charge your mom for the weekend if she came to visit? Because that's how ridiculous this is.
... (read in full...)
Said that she loves me but isn't in love with me -- could this change?
Q. I feel in a strange place at the moment. My girlfriend left me and I honestly thought she was the one. She said she loves me but is not in love with me? DO you think this could change over time? I have agreed to give her time and space to think bu...
A. 11 March 2014: 24 is young, very young. She wasn't the one for you. And there is no such thing as "the one" or "one love". People can find love with several others, not just one person. This person didn't find love with you, even if you found it with her.
How l... (read in full...)
None of the guys I've dated since has been able to accept the fact that I'm friends with an old ex!
Q. Why do men find it such a big problem that im good friends with an old ex? Background- I got together with my first proper boyfriend when I was 15. We were together for 4 years and he was my first love and my first everything. We had a good young...
A. 10 March 2014: What is strange is how much info you share about your ex. A new boyfriend doesnt have to know the details, and what bothers them is most probably not the friendship, but how you behave about this friendship. Maybe you appear to still love him, or ... (read in full...)
How do I make it clear that I don't want more than friendship from this guy?
Q. Okay, so I have a slight issue with understanding what this boy's intentions and motives are. I met this boy when I first arrived at university in September and he's lovely, bless him. From September until January we only ever said hello to ea...
A. 9 March 2014: Its not your job to take care of him emotionally! That's HIS job. So what of he gets upset, he'll deal with it and live with it.
I was right, you were not clear enough in your response. Your response, in his ears, was this "I really like you, but... (read in full...)
What should I aim for first, baby or dream career?
Q. I need some advice on how to map out a few things in life!!! I'm 29 years old, I have a full time permanent job that I enjoy and the type of skill set that allows me to do nixers from home if I need extra cash. I have a bit of debt that is due to b...
A. 9 March 2014: PS. I'd also not brush away the idea of doing both at the same time. See how things play out, but it's not impossible to have a child AND set up a business. It just takes more planning and financially you will not be as secured. But that also ... (read in full...)
What should I aim for first, baby or dream career?
Q. I need some advice on how to map out a few things in life!!! I'm 29 years old, I have a full time permanent job that I enjoy and the type of skill set that allows me to do nixers from home if I need extra cash. I have a bit of debt that is due to b...
A. 9 March 2014: Im with Cerberus on this. You are a permanent job now, you're with someone you want a child with (I assume you've discussed this with your partner?), and you are good financially. Everyone has some dept, and you sound like you have it under control. ... (read in full...)
How do I make it clear that I don't want more than friendship from this guy?
Q. Okay, so I have a slight issue with understanding what this boy's intentions and motives are. I met this boy when I first arrived at university in September and he's lovely, bless him. From September until January we only ever said hello to ea...
A. 9 March 2014: Girl, he asked if you were single. A guy who isn't interested in you has NO interest in knowing whether you are single or not. It is always a sign that he is interested. Always. No question about it. And he even offered himself to you on a silver ... (read in full...)
What does "trying too hard" mean in the context of dating?
Q. Hi cupid I was wondering what "trying too hard" refers to when a girl/guy is pursuing a match or maybe trying to date? What are the ways to know if you are trying to hard and how does it come out as a big turn off ? Cheers ...
A. 3 March 2014: When trying too hard you send out a clear signal that you are desperate, and no one will respect someone who is desperate. You don't admire desperate people, look up to them in awe... You look down on desperate people and find them annoying. Trying ... (read in full...)
Do guys really find squirting to be a turn-on, or was my partner just too polite to say it grossed him out?
Q. I'm in my mid 20's and I've known I was a squirter since I was about 19/20 due to masturbation. But despite having a couple of sexual partners and previously being married, I have never felt comfortable enough to squirt with any partner despite ...
A. 2 March 2014: I dont see why he would lie. ... (read in full...)
Women, do you prefer it when a man delays ejaculation?
Q. I just want to find out if delayed ejaculation is necessarily than premature ejaculation where the female perspective is concerned. I sleep on a regular basis with sex workers. Normally, I ejaculate within a minute or tow, sometimes even within ...
A. 2 March 2014: I think sex workers prefer you to finish as soon as possible.
What a woman who is in a relationship with a man wants in the bedroom depends completely on that particular woman and that particuar relationship.
But sex workers prefer the man t... (read in full...)
Why did she tell my Mom first, and not me?
Q. My sister is in her mid-30s and is married. We aren't super close due to our age difference, but we still talk and hang out. She called today and I answered the phone. She said that she was just calling to say hi and talked about her day. Then I ...
A. 1 March 2014: Mom ranks over you in this one. Nothing personal, it's just standard operating procedure.
I'm really tight with my brother, we even lived together on two different occasions (after moving out of home), and we'd discuss anything between heaven a... (read in full...)
Pregnant and confused! What should I do?
Q. heya, my head is so confussed, i just found out im pregnant! im not in a realtionship and have slept with two boys this month with about 3-4days appart, so have no way in knowing who the father is. this isnt the first time iv been pregnant,...
A. 1 March 2014: Btw, I guess this depends on what country you live in (and is unrelevant to the original post I wrote), but here in Norway a man can not just choose to ignore his child. They have to pay, and then they have to spend time with the child in shared ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and confused! What should I do?
Q. heya, my head is so confussed, i just found out im pregnant! im not in a realtionship and have slept with two boys this month with about 3-4days appart, so have no way in knowing who the father is. this isnt the first time iv been pregnant,...
A. 1 March 2014: Men don't get pregnant. But men do become fathers in the very same sense that women become mothers. It's not the pregnacy that is the problem here, it is the potential future as a mom or dad... And yeah, guys become dads just as much as women become ... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 1 March 2014: "'s like I told you go over to that computer write a C++ program that can convert temperature and calculate thermal energy. Well you will need someone to teach you and gain some experience."
No, it's like riding a bike. You will never learn ho... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 1 March 2014: Ive never heard of the term "cold approach", but whatever it is, taking to someone is the ONLY thing that actually works, when it comes to getting to know someone. Anyone. You can't meet anyone at all, get to know anyone at all, unless you speak to ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and confused! What should I do?
Q. heya, my head is so confussed, i just found out im pregnant! im not in a realtionship and have slept with two boys this month with about 3-4days appart, so have no way in knowing who the father is. this isnt the first time iv been pregnant,...
A. 28 February 2014: You don't get pregnant if you use a condom, it really is that simple. My guess is, as it is with most of these cases, is the guys assumed the girl was on the pill and didnt bring a condom and didn't care. If he cared, he would have used a condom and ... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 28 February 2014: You assume she must be a stranger at a bus stop. But she might as well be a friend of a male buddy of yours, who you would be supposed to walk over and say hi to anyways... Why do you insist on making things complicated?
So what if she feels "i... (read in full...)
Can I ever really trust her after I found out about her threesome?
Q. 6 months into our relationship my girlfriend went on holiday and I later found out that she had a threesome with two men she met in a nightclub while she was away. After she said it was just a crazy one off I forgave her. But I just can't get ...
A. 28 February 2014: Some things you can never forget or get over. This is one of those things. You can forgive her, and that's good and all. But you can't force yourself to forget, you can't force yourself to not feel hurt by it. It's supposed to hurt, being cheated on ... (read in full...)
Can I ever really trust her after I found out about her threesome?
Q. 6 months into our relationship my girlfriend went on holiday and I later found out that she had a threesome with two men she met in a nightclub while she was away. After she said it was just a crazy one off I forgave her. But I just can't get ...
A. 27 February 2014: No, you can not ever trust her. She is a cheater, and she liked it, and she bragged about it to her friends even. That speaks volumes of her character.
It's your choice, your life, but do not fool yourself. She is a cheater, and she will cheat on... (read in full...)
Pregnant and confused! What should I do?
Q. heya, my head is so confussed, i just found out im pregnant! im not in a realtionship and have slept with two boys this month with about 3-4days appart, so have no way in knowing who the father is. this isnt the first time iv been pregnant,...
A. 27 February 2014: Both are shocked? I think they're dumb, didnt they know sex can lead to pregnancy?
Sorry, but there two guys don't sound that intelligent, and if I were you I'd certainly not depend on either of them to step up. Or contribute to much, they don... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 27 February 2014: 1. Identify a woman
2. Walk over to her
3. Say , and introduce yourself
Thats the basics. The rest is try and fail.... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 23 February 2014: It's perfectly okay to find it scary and not want to do it. Everyone finds it uncomfortable to move out of their comfort zone. But it gets easier as you get used to it. Like bicycling, to use an old metaphor. You can't learn to ride the bike without ... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 22 February 2014: My point was not to give you dating tips, but to tell you that women actually have a harder time than men when it comes to this. You think it is easy for women to just sit and wait and wait and then what happens when no guy talks to her? She just ... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 21 February 2014: "One thing to realize is that you are women, and you guys have it easy. You guys have the power to either accept or reject him and wait for the next guy."
No, we don't have it easy at all. You're dead wrong. Women are just as desperate for a ma... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 20 February 2014: Can you count how many negative things you have written in your last update? And how many positive? You are not being honest with yoursrlf about reality. You are lying to yourself, saying negative things over and over. Just like women MAY find you ... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 19 February 2014: I've read several places that people who think they are amazing have good confidence... You wont get confidence from anything if, at the end of the day, you're going to sit there and talk low of yourself, calling yourself ugly etc.
Confi... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 14 February 2014: Dear poster. I hope you can take this seriously for your own health and future. You have a very dark thought process, and are filled with negative "truths" that are not truths at all, but ideas your mind has been feeding you to hold yourself down. ... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 13 February 2014: Women do not love that job, but do you think there'd be any customers if they told the truth?... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 13 February 2014: It is a question of morals. Paying a woman for sex, or even thinking that it is normal to do so, speaks of a non-existing respect for women, that women are only objects. Are women only bodies to have sex with for your own pleasure? Or are we humans ... (read in full...)
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