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writes: Im 17 and ive never had a boyfriend. What am I doing wrong? I like guys but they never seem to like me back I've been friendzoned about 9 times this year. Im not very pretty, and Im a little overweight, but I think im nice. I cant understand why Im good enough to be a close friend, but not a girlfriend. I've had one guy like me in my life and im really nice to him, and I try to get to know him better because a want to try to like him, but Im trying harder than him even though hes the one who likes me. I feel like I'm the only one trying to make an effort to get closer. Am I doing something wrong? I want to at least have my first kiss before I graduate, and thats in about 3 months.
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reader, Love_You_Forever  +, writes (17 March 2014):
dear, listen to me.
being overweighted is NO PROBLEM AT ALL! in fact, I know a lot of skinny girls that are beautiful, virgins, and suffering. This has to do with the love you give yourself.
if this is a big deal for you, go to a party, and you'll be kissed. I should warn you that does not solve the problems.
In particular, my friend is super pretty and she had her first kiss at the age of 18. This ain't no big deal. You're young, and I am sure you're beautiful. I met a 102kg girl/1,60m that was super cute and had a boyfriend.
Exercise. Walk 45 min a day, not to lose weight, but to set free some serotonin.
You ARE loved by someone. Think of all the platonic crushes you had and they didnt had any idea. Somebody have got that for you too, kid.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (17 March 2014):
 Maybe you need to relax and back off the guy, let HIM do some work now.
I do think you are being a little impatient, but it's understandable. However, what's the hurry?
TAKE your time finding someone YOU want as much as they want you, don't settle for a guy who "likes" you, if you aren't nuts about him.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (17 March 2014):
 It is quite normal to be 17 and not having been kissed. So no, youre not doing anything wrong. You are just being impatient.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2014): Develop self-confidence. Nothing is more attractive in someone than that. I don't mean arrogance, either. Don't be needy, nor passive. That is very unattractive.
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reader, brock24 +, writes (17 March 2014):
 I didn't have my first kiss or boyfriend until I was 18 and a senior in highschool. I thought the same way what's wrong with me, why dont I have a boyfriend, why doesn't anybody like me like that...but you will have your first kiss and your first boyfriend it WILL happen believe me. For now enjoy highschool and your friends and being a teenager, cuz you'll never get this time back!!!!! :)
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