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writes: Hi, I have started having sex w a new guy. He's 6'5" and I'm 5'5". For some reason he can't ever get his dick inside me unless I pull my legs up. Why is that? Is it because of the height differential? I don't get it! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2014): He's very fit - thin, tall, 8 pack - He's 6'5" like I said but I would not say his dick is also proportionately very large, I would say it's an above average size. He's over 40 and I think he's been with his share of other women so I find it very surprising ... have to figure out how to nicely try to broach the subject of trying other options ...
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reader, chigirl +, writes (20 March 2014):
What does his penis look like/how big is it? That's probably the reason why he can only enter in one position, it has to do with his penis being the way it is. Alternatively, if he is over weight, his belly could be getting in the way.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (20 March 2014):
He might be tall, but he is small. Why aren't you on top? There are 5,000 positions for sex, and neither one of them have to do with height. He needs to get out of his rut.
Some sexual books may be a great investment.
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reader, Marilissa75 +, writes (20 March 2014):
Sounds like a lack of experience. It also sounds mechanical. I tend to not sleep with a man if I sense after the first time or two that he is cold and mechanical. I don't have a lot of patience in that regard. Try talking to him about it, making a case for increasing passion and trying different things...slow as it goes. Best of luck to you! I hope it gets better.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (20 March 2014):
Height have nothing to do with sex or great sex. I think he isn't very experienced in various positions. Or HE just likes you to have your legs up like that.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (19 March 2014):
Maybe he's relatively new to sex. Height shouldn't be an issue since the parts only have to line up in the middle.
I'm a foot taller than my wife and things work fine.
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