Doesn't anyone date anymore?
Q. I just became single again after 3 years relationship. Started going out and meeting lots of guys. We exchange phone numbers, then they call or text. Never with an invitation for a date. It's ussualy a little after we met: did you get home alright? ...
A. 11 June 2013: I to have been in this situation for 2 years after my last 4 year relationship. There doesnt seem to be any kind of courtship from men anymore and I too get the same 'wanna come over?' at midnight from any guy i meet whether its in a bar, a library, ... (read in full...)
Feeling overshadowed by this new girl
Q. Hi guys, I hope someone out there can help me out as I am feeling pretty stuck on this situation. I have met a lovely guy recently who I really feel I can connect with as we seem to get on so well like a house on fire and we share common interest...
A. 29 December 2012: And just to add she does have a boyfriend but acts as though she doesn't xxx... (read in full...)
He ended what I thought was a great relationship, what happened?
Q. Hello everyone I have a problem which i would like to see if anyone could shed some light on. I met a guy 8 months ago and we stayed in contact with each other for 8 months, he lived 4 hours away at the time but recently moved 1 hour away, so fr...
A. 26 June 2012: Mmm but he was the one who always complained about not seeing me, and I was the one who told him im fine with the fact hes busy and I was in no place or even wanted him to stop his life in anyway, I just wanted to be a companion, not to make him ... (read in full...)
Is there any way to regain his interest?
Q. On my first 2 dates w/ a guy (well, date #2 was just hanging out w/him and his friends at his place), he barely even kissed me. Seriously. Just romantic things like holding my hand. But then date #3 was me getting booty texted from a bar. When I ...
A. 13 August 2011: Erm well if he still talks to you then you have no reason not to bring it up. just ask him 'ive noticed you have become distant after that night, is there any reason why?' something along those lines should be ok, if hes lost interest anyway he wont ... (read in full...)
Is there any way to regain his interest?
Q. On my first 2 dates w/ a guy (well, date #2 was just hanging out w/him and his friends at his place), he barely even kissed me. Seriously. Just romantic things like holding my hand. But then date #3 was me getting booty texted from a bar. When I ...
A. 13 August 2011: heya. there could be many reasons why he has suddenly gone a bit 'cold'.
Some guys just want to get laid in some sense, and though really disheartening to think, he may have just thought 'oh i didnt get any action, time to move onto the next girl... (read in full...)
I hate myself so much for falling for him
Q. I really need some help as im quite desperate. To cut a story short, I started liking a guy about 6 months ago and ever since its got even more and more deeper and stronger. I barely saw him and he never made the effort to speak to me if he did. On...
A. 15 February 2011: Thank you so much everyone who has helped.
And to OhGetReal, I do have a big problem with anxiety, but I am not taking medication, and dont think I will.
I am getting over it, its not really a massive deal now i think about it but it did effect m... (read in full...)
This guy doesn't like me for no reason... it's confusing me!
Q. hey guys just a little probem i have that is niggling in my head for a while now. ill try and kee this short and to the point. i am i mysecon year of uni and i live in a house share and my flat met with the upstairs flat a few months ago and i me...
A. 21 November 2010: thank you guys so much for your input i really appreciate it =] ... (read in full...)
Do guys go to clubs with the intention of pulling girls?
Q. ok thanks to everyone who responds, i really appreciate it. I know this will probably seem so obvious to people and also possibly stupid but I would love some input. ok well i went out last night and was with my flatmates at a student bar/club...
A. 23 August 2010: Thanks everyone for your answers!
well i did get a reply from him and hes asked to meet me. So i guess it does happen!
Thanks everyoneee
xxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
Sometimes there's blood when I wipe!
Q. I am really worried. I need your help. Ok, this barely started some time ago, not that long ago, but the problem is that sometimes when i go to the bathroom and then i wipr theres blood. What can this be a sign of ? What shoudl I do ?!...
A. 9 December 2009: Ive had this happen to me a fair few times, and it still happens now. If its blood coming out or your bottom and its bright red then usually its either going to be piles or a tear in your intestines. Neither are serious at all. Piles can be treated ... (read in full...)
Harassed by other men but boyfriend wont help me
Q. Ok basically. I get harassed by other men when i go to the clubs and my boyfriend doesn't do anything to help me because he believes I should get rid of them myself. I understand its my responsibility to get rid of them, but he just watches ...
A. 7 April 2009: hello thank you for your advice.
I get men touching me and trying to pull me away for drinks and well 'fun time' in the corner. and i really dont like it. I stand upto myself and tell people no but sometimes it gets out of hand that i need supp... (read in full...)
Can you have a healthy relationship without sex?
Q. this is an awkward thing to be asking strangers, but i don't really know what to do. My Boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years, and man has it been a ride. But we don't have sex. We don't have sex because he doesn't like vagina's, but he ...
A. 27 January 2009: Sex is important but not exactly essential.
If both of you are ok without the sex then itcan be good, but if you want it then perhaps things wont go well as you will gradully feel very frustrated. Seeing as youve posted this question already sums... (read in full...)
Is it ok that when I ejaculate it doesn't shoot? It just kind of "dribbles".
Q. Is it ok that when I ejaculate it doesn't shoot? It just kind of "dribbles". I know that this is definitely not "normal" but does it effect me when I want children?...
A. 27 January 2009: Its actually very 'normal'. apparently only about 30% of men actually shoot or squirt when they ejaculate. 'dribbling' is apparently more common with men. I got this from various sex sites and advice from people, but im not saying im 100% corre... (read in full...)
Would stretch marks and odd-shaped nipples put a girl off me?
Q. I'm not large or what ever term you want to use for being heavy.However I do have small stretch mark scars on the underside of my arm and on my shoulder. 1)Is that odd or bad? 2)Would a girl be turned off entirely? Well this question will soun...
A. 4 January 2009: My boyfriend used to have stretchmarks under his arms and on his sides but it never turned me off. I personally found it quite cute. And his nipple are also strangely shapedbut it really all depends on the woman. Some will find it weird and just ... (read in full...)
He wants to see if he misses me will he be back?
Q. My boyfriend of 6 years decided he needed time apart. He wasn't treating me that well lately an was turning small meaningless arguments into big scandals. We have had problems in our relationship, which is normal for every couple, but I was always ...
A. 31 December 2008: Hunni this guy hasnt made up his mind and its been one month and a half. This must be so difficult for you. Ive been in the exact spot. My boyfriend said he needed time to see if we were right together but it only lasted for a couple of weeks, ... (read in full...)
How do I get back what is missing
Q. hey guys, this mite sound a bit strange...but here goes... so, iv been in a relationship with an amazing guy for almost a year and a half. he makes me so happy its unbelievable. we enjoy each others company, we love each other, and we have a go...
A. 27 December 2008: No I dont feel its bad. Ive been with my guy for almost 2 years. And I look at him thinking hes the most gorgeous man alive, but I dont get that same spark I useed to when I saw him. I think its normal and just a sign that your becoming comfortable ... (read in full...)
Should I ask him back or wait for him to do it
Q. My ex got in contact with me after 5 months and now I am confused. He has never been one to talk about feelings and admits it himself, he says he has trust issues. We met up for a drink and he was treating me very well like we were together again, ...
A. 27 December 2008: I think he should too.
If he was decent, he would ask you straight back out officially when he started acting as though you two were together again.
Perhaps he does need thinking time and is only seeing if these dates will give him the all thum... (read in full...)
They're calling my boyfriend a pedophile
Q. im 13 and my boyfriend is 16. we have only been going out for a week but we like eachother and have known eachother for a long time. Thing is people at school are calling him a pedophile even though hes not. we hav never had sex but we have kissed ...
A. 11 December 2008: This same thing happened with my boyfriend. He was 18 when we started dating and I was only 15. He got people calling him a pedophile and people were telling me that Im a slag for going out with a much older guy. (He is now 20 and Im turning 18 in 4 ... (read in full...)
He wants to have sex with me!
Q. Okay, there's a guy I really like. He's 17 and I've known him for a while. We're really good friends, but he wants to have sex with me. Should I agree to it? I'm kind of nervous, but how can I reject him? I don't want him to hate me as a ...
A. 11 December 2008: Hello sweety.
From your post my answer is that you should tell him no.
He isnt your boyfriend, and hes just a guy that is probably at your school and seeing hes a 17 year old, hes probably going through puberty and all that malarkey. And hes inte... (read in full...)
How can I change things when I don't feel wanted?
Q. Ive been with my bf for nearly 3 years. We broke up for 5 months about 3 months ago and he slept with another girl. I thought things would get better becuase he started to treat me better and tried to make up for what he did. Well I think I wa...
A. 11 December 2008: Everything is finally soughted out. He came to my door with flowers, but even though appreciating them lods didnt leave it without explanation so I told him how i felt. He felt as though he didnt do anthing wrong and wasnt flirting but he apologized ... (read in full...)
Am I anorexic?
Q. People say that Im under weight and that I'm anorexic because im 5'6 and I only weigh 118 lbs.. Even my family says I am..am I where I'm supposed to be??...
A. 10 December 2008: You dont sound that underweight. Perhaps you have just got a natural small frame. Im 5'4 and weigh 120 lbs. So to me, you sound fine.
If of course you are making yourself sick and excersising too much then yes you may have some symptons of anor... (read in full...)
How can I change things when I don't feel wanted?
Q. Ive been with my bf for nearly 3 years. We broke up for 5 months about 3 months ago and he slept with another girl. I thought things would get better becuase he started to treat me better and tried to make up for what he did. Well I think I wa...
A. 10 December 2008: Thanks for your advice. Ive confronted him about the texts and am awaiting him to come over this evening. and im going to talk things through with him. Its just a realy bad time for allthis to start coz i have my 18th bday on monday =/. dont really ... (read in full...)
He's got a GF and resisting my offers to meet up. Is he just messing with me?
Q. What is up? Ok - I'm a good looking older woman with a good figure and personality! - I have recently got involved with a younger guy who I would do ANYTHING for and he knows I really like him (but unfortunately he has a girlfriend who he says ...
A. 18 November 2008: hes got a girlfriend. simple as that.
To me it sounds as though hes just probably making up all these stories about him and his gf not getting on and he just wants a bit at the side.
Or there could be a possible chance hes terrified his girl wil... (read in full...)
My boyfriend told her she'll always belong to him! Wot the.....????
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 19 months now, we get alone very well and have a lot in common. I used to trust him until I found out he told a girl he used to "talk" to that she will always belong to him, when I talked to him about it, he ...
A. 9 November 2008: Dump him. He doesnt sound as though he has any interest in you, but does with this girl. Give him a head start and get rid of him. You deffinetly dont want to be with a guy like that, and youll be better off. It will hurt, but then agin, he ... (read in full...)
She wants a "back up" guy!
Q. I've been dating this girl that I love more than anything, she tells me she loves me the same way but she cheated on me cuz she was drunk and that she wants a backup guy. I'm afraid I might lose her to this guy. Can any one help me on what I can do ...
A. 27 October 2008: Dump her. If she truly loved you she wouldn't be thinking about having a back up guy. Why would she need them??? If shes cheated on you and goes on to telling you she needs a back up....jeez boy youve got some girl on your hands. Talk to ... (read in full...)
Would you like to be second best?
Q. If you found out that your bf/gf was going to dump you for their ex, but then decided to stay with you, would you be ok with it or wud you end it with them ? how would you react ?...
A. 27 October 2008: I would end it. You woudlnt feel the same about that person anymore. How could you stay with someone who was just about to easily throw you away like that?
They obviously dont love you or care about you as much as you think if there prepared to g... (read in full...)
Are these side effects from coming off the pill??
Q. Hello. I would like some help from women who have been on the Microgynon 30 pill. Ok I started taking the contraceptive pill when I was 10 for my heavy periods. I had started my period when I was 9 (very early bloomer) and was on the pill until I ...
A. 3 August 2008: i stopped at the end of the pack
=] thnk you for your advice
xxx... (read in full...)
My girlfriend runs after the boys I like, I try to let her do what she wants because I want her to be happy, but this one boy I really like a lot and she has her eye on him, she also lies about me to boys, what can I do?
Q. ok i told my friend that i liked this guy allot and she didnt even no him and we hung out 2 days ago and she started flirting with him...........she gave him her number and was askin him out and stuff...............and scince in knew that she liked ...
A. 13 July 2008: Wow what a horrible friend. Shes using you lovely. Shes obviously a very very insecure girl who thinks she can get evrything in her path. To be honest, I dont even think she likes these guys but is trying to upset you by flirting with them anyway... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tell my best friend I really like him. Secondly, I'm having problems getting over my ex.
Q. The first part of the problem is that I like my best friend. He's been my best friend for a few years now and I don't know exactly how to tell him I like him, but I know I need to. The second part is that I just can't seem to get over my ex. I've ...
A. 13 July 2008: I agree with the poster below. I think you should hold off telling your best friend how you feel. I have a feeling you may only be looking for a way to forget your ex boyfriend. My ex did the exact same thing when we broke up. A girl took an int... (read in full...)
How do I make him understand that overt flirtations and his forgetting my feelings is wrong. Or should I pretend nothing is happening?
Q. I have been married for 23 years. Last year, I found that my husband had been texting and emailing a colleague (and she had responded over 200 times) with extremely explicit sexual language - It read as though they were having an affair - even ...
A. 13 July 2008: Well to be honest I wouldnt tell you to do what hes doing back, becuase thats just immature. I see you have spoken to him about if over a few years and he still hasnt listend to you, so I think you should give up on the words and start taking a... (read in full...)
Cheap boyfriend who won't share - should I just move on to someone who doesn't put money first?
Q. I am 46 and broke, my previous husband took me to the cleaners, I became homeless and had to live with another family for 6 months until I got on my feet. I have now managed to do this and have met a man who is wealthy. He won't pay for meals when ...
A. 13 July 2008: Sounds like hes a right jerk. From reading your post, all I think is that hes just using you for comfort. Seeing as he spends lods of money on his ex, knowing he obviosuly cant get her back hes usuing you as a substitute until he gets what he wan... (read in full...)
He was the most important person in my life. Now this. It's not meant to be. What can I do?
Q. I dont know what to do. heres my story. My best friend (call him simon) is bisexual and he met someone(call him josh) . They had fancied eachother in the past but they became friends..then intermate. then day by day josh took over and i was bein...
A. 13 July 2008: Have you ever tried actually talking to Josh rather than Simon?
I know this is probably not what you want to here, but from reading your post, all I get is that Simon didnt really care that much about you, otherwise he would be trying to keep the ... (read in full...)
I messed with another girl in front of my wife, I thought she was cool with it and now she doesn't trust me.
Q. I messed with another girl in front of my wife, i thought she was cool with it and now she doesn't trust me. What can i do?...
A. 13 July 2008: What woman would be cool about there husband playing and messing around with another girl?
You need to have a very good talk with her about what has happened. You didnt explain the reason why you played around with this girl, but if its becuase your... (read in full...)
Is it right that I should lie about starting my period?
Q. I'm 13 and my periods have not started, but every one in my year have, i feel like a baby. When people ask - i have to lie and say yes i have, because they will laugh at me. Is this right??...
A. 13 July 2008: I dont personally think its bad of you too lie about it.
If they were to pick on you then I would probably do the same to avoid them doing so.
I dont think you should take it personally though.
Some girls dont start there periods until there ... (read in full...)
What can I say back through text to someone I like and who fancies me too?
Q. I am really good friends with a guy in the year above me. He told me that he really fancies me and we need to spend more time together. I really like him too. He sends me really nice texts, but i never know what to say back to them. One example bein...
A. 13 July 2008: aww how sweet.
well im sure you can think of what to say.
If it was me getting that text I would say the same back e.g
'I wish I was there with you too, I love your hugs there wonderful' or something along those lines.
I dont think you need p... (read in full...)
I've got an amazing guy after me but I want to be free and single at my age! What to do?...
Q. Ive Got an amazing lad after me .!! At one point i thought i loved him back but now im not sure i said when i finish school im going to move away and he said hes going to come with me! Hes amazing hes absolutly adalises me! Theres nothing wro...
A. 12 July 2008: If you dont want a loving relationship then just stay single. tell him you cant commit and dont want to hurt him.
Then leave him alone.
He doesnt want you to play him, hes desperate to be with you and I think you should try it before u determin... (read in full...)
Wll she be interested if I talked to her about my ex??
Q. im talking to a girl whos a lil younger.. she knows my ex-gf whos really popular... do u think it'll make her more interested if i talked to her about my ex... but i like this new girl.. or dont bring her up at all ......
A. 21 June 2008: No dont talk to her about your ex. The one thing that really turns off a girl is when a guy constantly mentions his ex in every single topic. Even when its not even relevant to talk about her.
All she will think is that your not over her and wont... (read in full...)
Betrayal: An Emo Girl Heartbreak , How Should I Seek Closure?
Q. I just had a breakup with my boyfriend, he did some things that were hurtful, that I will forgive then forget who he is. He let two of his friends talk about me , his female friend said that I was fat, and one of his boys said that I was ugly. He's ...
A. 12 June 2008: Heya hunni.
Im going through a very similar situation as you.
I was with my bf for 2 years and he never loved me throughout all of it. But anyways...you need to get yourself out with your friends. Keep yourself very very busy.
Getting a job will d... (read in full...)
I really like him, but, will he continue to be a flirt if I keep giving him more chances although he knows he is hurting me bad?
Q. I really like my boyfriend, and as far as i know he really likes me. We waited about two years before we could start going of for certain reasons. We have been going out 3 months. I don't get to see him very often because of both of us have busy ...
A. 12 June 2008: you should really tell him how you feel.
Its disrespectful for him to flirt with other girls when he is clearly taken.
I can see from your ages your only between 13-15, im guessing he is too.
Hes probably to immature to be in a relationship... (read in full...)
Read this break up email from my bf, and tell me what it means, please!
Q. I got this break up email from my bf. What do you think it means? I know obviously it means he wants to break up, but do you think I have a chance to patch it back together with him? I still love him and I know we've had some problems typical ...
A. 29 May 2008: Hello hun. It sounds as though he isnt commiting enough to be with you, and is a little bit shallow to tell you this in an email. If he is not ready to get married, dont pressure him and just move on with your life. There will be someone else who... (read in full...)
Are there side effects to contraceptive pills?
Q. Hi, my doctor prescribed me some contraceptive pills to ease my stomach pain and shorten periods. I was just wondering if there's any side-effects? I need a bit of reassurance because i'm rather hesitant to take them. Thanks!...
A. 10 May 2008: Yes there can be side effects to the pill, but most of them are quite rare.
The only possible effects you might get are a bloating of the stomach and some mood changes.
More un common ones are headaches, nausea and tender breasts.
But...Ive hea... (read in full...)
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